I think highly of the word friend or am i just apathetic little bitch?

I have someone who i always talk to for about a year now or more, i like being with her but if someone gonna ask me "is she your friend?", i might say "yes" because we have been talking for a year now, but to me i feel like wanting to say "no" because i don't feel something new if she's there or not. Its like she is someone i usually talk with, but i only gave her a piece of me. Which is kinda stupid of me, i dont understand how people can say they are friend with someone even though they only talk for 3 weeks or less. I would likely to say to someone they are my friend, if im comfortably talk with everything, like they Pierce through me. They can see everything i want to hide. I dont understand.

Im probably the problem lmao
But i don't like saying they are my friend feels like stupid title that i want to say to someone without feeling awkward or anything

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LeRain 21 hours

Most people will just use friend because it sounds better, but most of them are really just acquaintances. Even after knowing somebody for three years and talking with them regularly, I don’t really consider them friends. Just because our relationship isn’t that deep. 1 reply

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lololololololol2 21 hours

I don't think you're the problem at all. I had a girl that I wouldn't really talk with unless it was necessary and we weren't even in the same friend group, but one day I overheard someone asking if we we're friends and she agreed. I think everyone has their own definition of friendships and you're not the problem at all you're just setting boundar...... reply

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やおいはかんぺき 21 hours

Yeah same, I have no friends, Just acquaintances. People I know, say hi to and talk with but I can't say they are my friends because everything we have is surface level. reply

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purin 22 hours

Im surprised, ive never heard of anyone experiencing this too. Im kind of the same. It's really difficult for me to view someone as my friend. It doesnt matter how long we've known each other or how much we've talked, i still wouldn't consider that person my friend. I need to develop a deep connection before i consider anyone my friend. My guess is...... reply

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whatevermans 21 hours

what if yall have abandonment issues? if someone is not your 'friend' it's easier to get over them in case they leave. it's like you are preparing to be abandoned so you are not getting too close to them in advance 1 reply

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Sato 22 hours

I think I get what you mean. Tho you godda remember that if you started talking with someone on the basis of seeking a romantic relationship, the getting to know each other time is 3-6 months on average. Then its probably time to take the next step. If you got to know each other just all random and you clicked right off the start, and talk everyday...... reply

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NANA 22 hours

Maybe it takes a stronger connection for someone to be considered your friend. To other people you might say they’re a ‘friend’ like how I have ‘acquaintances’. And what you really consider a friend is a ‘close friend’. Some people are more casual about the word ‘friend’ and might not think of it as deeply as you. When someone a...... reply

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chikiki 20 hours

GIRL honestly same, i think way too highly of certain words like friend, love, dating, best friends etc cause language holds that much value to me. there is a specific reason why i used to call someone a best friend. but the world doen fucked me up so much i hardly use these words to describe andything and anyone reply

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Innocent 22 hours

English suck so bear with it, long story short. what is friend? reply

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