I am so tired of friends who expect but put in minimal effort when it comes to me. She and 3 other friends got me ONE cake while she expects me to dress up with NEW clothes for her birthday and get her smth nice for her bday. I really don't mind getting a cake for my bday its better than nothing but why do you have so much expectation for me while u barely did shit for mine???? why do you get so upset when i say i dont want to go somewhere "nice" because its expensive and im broke? you may like spending money but i don't. i'd rather buy something i genuinely like. its my money and i get to choose it. Why is friendship so hard.
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I think the fact that she cares more about new outfits than you being there to celebrate it speaks volume
well she did care about me being there but repeatedly telling me that i need a new outfit for her bday :/ why do u care so much what i wear... i alrdy spent money on your bday gift