i don’t know how to feel.. (¬_¬)
for some background; this guy & i have known each for years, we both have admit our feelings way back but never have we never became a thing. we would ghost each other then come right back.
recently he came back & me being the dumbest person who can’t place boundaries responded after telling everyone i was over him. which in a way i was but i held care for him as a person always.
he’s in the military, he’s been sending me letters for weeks now and never fails to mention how he wants to make things right & how be wants to see me.
he texted me a couple hours ago, talking about how he’s coming back for christmas & mentioned how this friend of his could hook him up a MOTEL for him & i. he said we could exchange gifts & all we wanted to do.
my gut sank & i have no idea if im overthinking it or not. i felt a bit disappointed & disrespected in a way— i have no idea if thats all he has in mind… he’s changed a lot & i have no idea what he’s like in person anymore.
i haven’t gotten opinions from friends because im scared of their judgement. i dont mind anonymous opinions though :( pls let me know if its just me overthinking it.
go meet him and decide.
I think people can change drastically sometimes, and he might have some alternative situation that makes it so that he needs to meet you like this. Communicate with him your worries politely, and just try to get some explanation from him. I don't think neither of you have any sort of major issues, it might just be some sor......
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