Thinking positively is really work or not?
Is there anyone have same situation like me ?
People said to get good things in our life we have to think and hope good things in our mind . For me I think it is wrong Everytime I hope good things ahead .it always went wrong . I only got good thing in my life after I suffered from negative thoughts and thinking bad things. If I hope it is okey or it is easy or I can do , it become opposite. For example if I wake up with good mood and think that today will be my day and that day become bad day and everything I did went wrong.So these days I become afraid to be happy and relax . If I did ,i am thinking like I don’t know what bad things is waiting for me .
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I get it I would wake up and be in a good mood just to come home regretting getting out of bed, but it stopped. I don't really know when I think it got to the point were I stopped expecting anything good or bad. It sounds depressing, but it really isn't. I just stopped caring about my day at all if life was going to be bad then it was fine and if it went good then that was more than fine. If you worry so much about the future you won't be able to live in the present at all. My days are better when I don't expect anything, because i'm not a fortune teller I don't know if its gonna go wrong or right. Anyways just try not to worry about it so much and rest well.
No, not only is it best to think positive, but you have to be a narcissist too. You also have to have a shitty memory which you can gain by having adhd or getting so many concussions that you get brain damage. By having a bad memory, you then can forget all the bad things in life. This is how I’ve been happy my entire life despite having so many problems.
Yeah that is good but for me I remember everything that happened in my life so can’t easy to forget . Anyway thank you for sharing your experience to me
From my experience expecting good grades only devestated me more when I failed. Its better to not have any expectations
Yeah that it is T_T
Thank you so much for sharing