It should be the standard honestly. It should really stop being taken as 'omg this is so disrespectful my partner assumes I have STDs' but rather 'my partner wants to keep both of us safe and sanitary' reply
i would feel nothing at all. They're just taking safe precautionary measures and practicing safe sex though personally before i do that i would ask if they aren't a virgin because then i would tell them. I dont wanna assume. reply
On one hand I would feel safer thinking they are sensible, because they would have done the same thing with previous partners. Although if they want me to get tested I would expect the same test from them.
On them other hand... are they asking to do it raw? The first time? Without reaching an agreement together? Feels a bit imposing. reply
