how would you feel if someone you were dating asked you to get an STD test before having intercourse

I do this with all my partners, I only sleep with those I date. We get full testing, HIV and STD tests - I also get started on birth control and we get condoms for him - we also get on prep for extra precaution. This should be standard, for everyone! Be safe, sex is more fun when you put your health first   2 reply

I would be completely fine with it. people have a right to protect themselves as they see fit. id also ask the same.   reply

if somebody gets offended when you ask to see their most recent std test results please just assume they got #that shit and run far far away   reply

what’s wrong w asking this …   1 reply

Thinks that it's a normal course of action, will ask for the same off of them   reply

We both getting our test done lol. Its a lot safer that way. Idk what there to get offended   reply

Literally just a logical approach!! I've never had intercourse so ofc I am inexperienced on how people go on with it, but this is something I constantly think about. This is definitely something I would do tbh and I won't feel uncomfortable if a partner asked me to get these tests done.   reply

Everybody should do that! Literally everybody! There's nothing wrong with asking to protect yourself from things that can potentially make you infertile, give you cancer or HIV. Some linger in the body for years and years and you'd never know without a test. Using protection (condoms) is something you should do but you're not a 100% protected wit......   reply

On one hand I would feel safer thinking they are sensible, because they would have done the same thing with previous partners. Although if they want me to get tested I would expect the same test from them. On them other hand... are they asking to do it raw? The first time? Without reaching an agreement together? Feels a bit imposing.   reply