My best friend keeps cancelling
ITS JUST FRUSTRATINGSHUSKWHS and I want people’s thoughts. We call almost daily, and I know she means no harm but my god. I invite her to hang out and she accepts and sometimes it’s her inviting me, but always every time she flanks out last minute. Extra info. We live very close to each other, This post isn’t meant to be hateful I’m just airing out frustration!! I know some of it can be stemmed down to mental health struggles. I’m just a little annoyed because it’s almost every single time I’m invited to hang out. (I’m posting this because I don’t have any friends to vent to and it just happpend again and I’m annoyed because I was really excited to hang out) ╥﹏╥
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this is reminding me of these two childhood friends i know. i’m somewhat acquainted with both, and i’ve always known one of them had chronic tardiness issues. recently, i found out they had a fallout after 20 years of friendship. both of them have undiagnosed adhd, but they’re total opposites when it comes to time.
all of this just goes to show that some things can’t be fixed once they’ve been allowed to fester for too long. the tardy one has never cancelled or been late with me though, because she knows i’ll straight up leave if she’s more than 5 minutes late and won’t see her again. ik hanging out with me gives her anxiety lmao.
at the end of the day, people will only go as far as you let them. if you keep tolerating bad behavior, it’s just a matter of time before it all falls apart
Wow...this looked as If you were talking about my relationship with my now..ex best friend. I recently got into a fight with her..and infact most of our fights were on this only..and in the last I ended the friendship for good. SHE DIDNT DESERVE ME. So yeah
Ah yes I forgot to mention..we were best friends for 7 years..I should've done it much sooner
only solution is to go to her door and force her to come out; she can't cancel if you're already there