Am I in the wrong?
I saw my boyfriend still has a note from his ex hung up in his room of her saying I love you babe. He’s brought her up before in conversation but says that they are just friends now, but they dated for 3 years. The ex also grabs dinner with my boyfriend’s mom from time to time and he says that it’s just because she’s like part of his family, and that I don’t have to worry.
She’s in a new relationship, so I don’t like see her as something I have to worry about, but I don’t think my boyfriend is as over her as he claims. I feel guilty for not trusting him. But the love note being brought with him when he moved to this town and hung up on his wall feels like a meaningful gesture. It just makes me feel sad like he’ll always be comparing me to her.
imma hold your hand when i say this... hes prolly (definitely) not over her. id understand if like the ex died and its just a memento really but actively bringing it when he moves is erm.... not it. ofc im not gonna tell you break up because i know its harder in person but at the same time i know hell keep telling you theres nothing to worry about ......
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24 11,2024
Bro if I'm being honest just break up with him he clearly isn't over her and is using you as a replacement or something to keep him Distracted and I know this seems Harsh and I don't want to make you feel bad but it's seeming this way from what I'm reading and tbh idk if she still has feelings for him or not bc maybe her and the mom just get along ......
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25 11,2024
Girl :( that is a red flag if I have ever seen one. BE skeptical and if he’s defensive about it there’s definitely something wrong going on there! Any reasonable person would be upset over that so don’t let someone make you feel like you’re being overly sensitive about it! Hope you figure it out before it gets messier
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25 11,2024
