I am a loner by default, but there’s a certain point where I start to feel lonely and I do not like it. I like having friends to share things with… even if I have to give myself the talk every three days to not fake my death, change my name, and ghost all of them forever…
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loneliness is so bad for us it actually shortens our lifespan. no one can survive long periods of time without any kind of human connection and manage to stay sane. 'wanting to be lonely' is for those who have the privilege of never having to be completely by themselves 1 reply
being alone and feeling loneliness are so different though, alone time can be good and refreshing for a lot of people while loneliness leans more towards rejection and sadness. i dont think anyone wants to feel loneliness. the loneliest i've ever felt was while i was quite literally surrounded by friends. i hope all the lesbians out there can learn...... reply
I want to feel loneliness so much that I yearn for it, I find comfort in my loneliness so I don’t have to worry about anyone leaving me ever I genuinely love all my friends I want to go out with them, have fun but it’s all so scary the world is too big to explore I’m worried I hate going out I hate it but some days I just wish to lay on grass...... reply