I'm scared of marriage

There's a negative stereotype associated with bachelors, especially spinsters. People make fun of the "old cat lady" but she's actually thriving, doing what she love without any man butting his dick into it, no children because it's fkin expensive to barely scrape by in this economy, let alone take care of another mini human. Still you might find ......   1 reply

Marriage isn't even real bro. How does having a fancy ceremony and signing some papers make your relationship any more valuable or important. Also why are romantic relationships more important than any other type!!!! That's stupid. They're all just survival methods made up by evolution anyways so why is one better than the others. You aren't goin......   reply

I think you need to ask yourself what you are scared of, and if you're not scared then if its the life you wish to lead. You might not be like me, but I am somewhere on the aroace scale. I don't wish to marry. I know that most of the time I don't really develop romantic or sexual attraction to people. And yet, I don't think my fate is sealed to b......   reply

You are pretty clearly a child, it is normal to feel that way when you are young.   reply

You may or may not be asexual (you have to really think abt it if you think that you might be ace a.k.a. asexual) but there are people out there who are (ace) meaning, there are people out there who are willing to commit despite the absence of physical intimacy. Regarding you not being a team player or might not be a good partner... I think you wil......   reply

Being abstinent and unmarried doesn't mean you have to be alone! Nuns aren't alone,they're in a convent. Not that you have to, though I do believe people need people. And that doesn't have to mean romance. Finding people with similar mindsets and interests is a start. Having a roommate who's kinda the same. And having cats,dogs or birds are nice......   reply

You don’t have to get married, and not getting married doesn’t mean you’ll be alone! And I know a lot of successful and happy people who share your sentiment about partners. My aunt for example has a good job and “big” house (for a single woman anyway) but she just instead uses that space and spare money to do things for her family and fr......   reply

Honestly it’s not worth it to think that hard like it’s not as if ur getting married rn right? The more u worry abt the future the more anxious ur gna b and ur gna lose ur present, have trust in urself that ur gna make the right decision when it comes to it, there’s no point worrying abt it rn   reply

Uf it works w u then it's okay but in general the sex experience is related to the partner you're doing it w if yall love each other i think they'd b able to make the experience enjoyable for both of you guys but that's my perspective i also think that there r much scarier things in marriage than that but yeah if that's your fear then that also mak......   reply