Cliché in yaoi

1. rape
2. no prep before anal sex
3. "im straight but-"
4. ukes during sex scenes "no not there" or "that feels weird uwu"
5. the female character always being the pushy ex gf that wants to break the uke and seme up or just the ex gf that the seme treated like shit before he turned gay like honey i get its yaoi BUT WE STAN STRONG FEMALE CHARACTERS!!!!
6. WHY IS THE UKE CRYING DURING SEX BC IT HURTS?? THATS NOT OK?? HELLO???? PREPARATION ????