Okay- for the context- I went to a bar with few friends and there was a group who was being super loud and I do not like loud people and also it was a bar for ffs! Anyways- the group was of guys who seemed gay? and my friend said that she hates loud gays and I kind of understand the sentiment too cause I detest loud people in general but all my friends started attacking her and when I defended her called me and her homophobic. Am I being homophobic..????
Rule of thumb:
If you have to ask if it’s racist or homophobic
It probably is
Also.. no statement is really worth saying if you have an inner monologue where you are trying to convince yourself it’s not bigoted. reply
