Okay- for the context- I went to a bar with few friends and there was a group who was being super loud and I do not like loud people and also it was a bar for ffs! Anyways- the group was of guys who seemed gay? and my friend said that she hates loud gays and I kind of understand the sentiment too cause I detest loud people in general but all my friends started attacking her and when I defended her called me and her homophobic. Am I being homophobic..????
She said she "hates loud gays"?
If it was "loud people" I would understand and probably also defend her but "loud gays" is definitely concerning language.
I'm gonna guess the "gay" part also comes from stereotypes and I hate that too. reply
