Should i end my relationship? TT
I dunno who to turn to or where to release my inner thoughts so im really sorry for the rant.
I have a bf of 6 mths but we get to know each other earlier but not as close as we r right now. After knowing him, i feel like hes too clingy. We r in ldr n i dont mind we updating each other bout our lives but he always extending the talk. Like if i told him i wanna sleep cuz i hav early class tmrw, he'll choose to ignore it n instead asked me if he can call me. Yes, i can refuse it but he'll guilt trip me (dunno if its intentional or unintentional).
The guilt tripping is another thing i have to bear with since if im not responding fast enough or left him alone cuz i hav important things to attend to do, he'll sulk. At 1st im ok with it bcs i thought he wanna be cutesy with me but almost everyday hes like this n im getting annoyed.
He would also say sorry to me if i point some stuff out that doesnt sit well with me n i would give him some advice, but he keeps repeating the same mistakes. Its not like i point it out once.
I want to communicate with him but hes also emotionally sensitive. This makes it harder for me to told him bout all of this but i cant take it anymore n i dunno how to solve this. N like he'll say that he feels like im being distant when im not responding to him. Ughhh i dunnooo AAAAAAAA
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I had a best friend EXACTLY like this, she'd love bomb me and then leave my text on read for days but if I'd do the same for genuine reasons she'd cry about it and guilt trip me, and same thing with pointing out mistakes and her repeating it over like she'd ignore it but she made sure to make me feel guilty even for pointing out things that made me feel uncomfortable. I then talked to another friend of mine and she advised me that if the friendship feels draining then i should put a stop to it for my own good, i stopped texting my bestfriend and she never texted me after it until recently... that's another story but what I'm saying is that in the time period we didn't text i felt so happy and free? in a way cause the friendship was exhausting to maintain, I'd advise to take a break with him and notice how you feel, that'll answer all your questions.
Yea i feel like i should take a break with him n think clearly on what to do nxt. Thank u so much
welcome <33 wishing you the best
Seems like u find him annoying more than you like him. Also u seem very young, many more opportunities ahead of u. If you aren't enthusiastic about the guy, move on. No sense wasting your time & your youth!
Right i thought bout it too but imma confront bout how i feel to him n take a break. If i feel like its not gonna work then i'll break it off