advice

speaking as someone who is a little flirty in comfortable friendships, I don't think this is a good relationship. My ex gf and i were friends before we dated so they knew i was very flirty but when we were dating i limited my flirtations with friends. i think that's a sensible thing to do especially when you've made it clear to her that it makes you uncomfortable. i don't think she respects your feelings very much and honestly, it would give me the ick if my partner did something that they knew i was uncomfortable with constantly. you're not a bad person for feeling uncomfortable and honestly, you deserve better than this