they can never make me hate you fujoshis

ninin ninin 2024-10-16 11:40:05 About criticism from fujo haters
fujoshi's are the ones creating genuine BL masterpieces, they're the ones scanlating , cleaning raws & working hard to upload ahead of time & etc... the hate on fujoshis is honestly crazy to me because i honestly love them & they do so much for the community .!

while i understand that a niche of fujoshis do genuinely fetishize gay men in real life, that's not all fujoshis and i'm not going to justify that at all !. i'm talking about the innocent girls that just love reading yaoi.

men calling women disgusting or gross just because they like BL definitely stems from their inner misogyny. i've seen countless of times where i've expressed "oh i like bl/yaoi!" & have been called gross because i'm a woman.

the intended meaning of fujoshi completely shames women for having interests. ironically the origins of the term literally was made by MISOGYNISTIC INCELS who just hate women,, but then ultimately the label fujoshi was reclaimed by women . so seeing gay men actually use the term from it's original intentions is actually crazy misogynistic. the western misinformation of fujoshis is honestly sad . fudanshi's who are straight and indulge reading yaois never face the heat fujoshis do, when they themselves are cishet. i honestly don't get the hypocrisy.. what makes cishet fudanshis so different from fujoshis??

& while theres better things to care about i can't shun this blatant misogyny against women in a community i'm very much in. a community of likewise people who enjoy reading bl. -- and in a community where women get shunned the most.

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cherryspring October 31, 2024 11:35 am

so seeing gay men actually use the term from it's original intentions is actually crazy misogynistic. the western misinformation of fujoshis is honestly sad .



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Not all. Briar Rose is the most masculine gay man I've ever known (shut up Briar, don't reply to me). In fact, we have many gay and bi men in our groups of friends who are not assholes to fujoshi. As a biological female native speaker of Japanese, Korean and other Japanese languages/dialects, and Chinese dialects, I can tell you from the majority native speakers pov, that we don't feel it's offensive to call yourselves (international readers who aren't the diaspora of my people) fujoshi or fudanshi. Rather, it's by far the most racist when people stereotype Korean and Japanese speakers as something derived from the West pov as facts when they're not.

Don't be alarmed be the hatred. It's all over TT and on insta. As an American (one of my nationalities), I get racist people telling me how to act, feel and think all the time. Funny how they try to school me about a simple fujoshi word as if I cared about their opinion when they're literally on this website reading Japanese, Korean and Chinese comics in English and illegally (⌒▽⌒) clearly that says a lot about them than me, am I right, Briar? (Shut up Briar, don't reply to me)

Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty October 31, 2024 11:39 am

clearly that says a lot about them than me, am I right, Briar?


No shit ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

Marie Curie November 2, 2024 12:42 am

AGREE WITH MY STATEMENT CHERRYSPRING

Sweetcake November 2, 2024 9:50 pm

No shit ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

Exousia October 18, 2024 12:57 pm

Also a fudanshi. The rampant misogynistic behavior in the lgbt+ is normalized, so don't take it too personally. There are many of them from certain countries who cannot tolerate real women and girls because they see them as easy targets for bullying and it's bigger than this issue alone, it goes beyond the fictional world of BL. I recommend clapping back at the haters when they talk down to women and girls.

Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty October 18, 2024 4:24 pm

True, they're mostly unstable

Exousia October 24, 2024 4:55 am
True, they're mostly unstable Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty

Yeah!

Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty October 18, 2024 3:21 am

Fudanshi here, I gave it some thought. I read BL without harassing any fujoshi and I'm friends with many. You're right. Incels are everywhere. We do not need to respond to any of them. By ignoring and letting them talk, it's entertaining to observe and let it pass. Not associating with them and focusing on the filthy rich and extravagant cultures of fujoshi and BL creators will make these dick riders feel more unwanted. They'll keep talking about wanting to be included in the conversation that they're not part of. BL will always be for bio female readers first. Some fudanshi should really learn to respect bio female readers' space. I make use of the block button generously.

Exousia October 18, 2024 12:51 pm

How to block?

Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty October 18, 2024 4:23 pm
How to block? Exousia

Hello Exousia, click the user's profile, go to the home page, scroll down until the end of the user's bio, and hit the block button. It doesn't do much.

Father PeeDoodi October 24, 2024 2:59 am

No cap, I respect your honesty

Exousia October 24, 2024 4:55 am
Hello Exousia, click the user's profile, go to the home page, scroll down until the end of the user's bio, and hit the block button. It doesn't do much. Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty

Thank you!

Exousia October 24, 2024 5:01 am
Thank you! Exousia

I've taken your advice and block unnecessary incels

Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty October 24, 2024 7:00 pm
Thank you! Exousia

Anytime, Exousia. Don't mention it

Marie Curie October 17, 2024 1:26 pm

MONOLINGUALS AND BILINGUALS ARE GENERALLY DUMB. MATURE FUJOSHI READERS ARE NICER THAN TOXIC PEDOS WHO THINK IT'S A JOKE TO FLASH MINORS WITH PORN IMAGES THAT ARE NOT RELATED TO THE ORIGINAL COMICS. I USED TO COME HERE TO READ WEBTOONS FREQUENTLY.

THE TOXIC PEDOS READ BL AND OTHER DISGUSTING TROPES AND TRY TO GROOM MINORS ONLINE WITH DISGUSTING PORN IMAGES. FLASHING OTHERS IS NOT NORMAL. DISGUSTING PEDOS SHOULD DIE.

Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty October 18, 2024 3:01 am

I get your point. Could you learn to type in undercase letters

Marie Curie October 19, 2024 12:22 pm
I get your point. Could you learn to type in undercase letters Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty

NO

Sweetcake October 17, 2024 1:25 am

Honestly, I don't think their opinions really matter. There are plenty of ways to get more involved! You might consider buying the official chapters, checking out L***in studio in South Korea, and connecting with the official creators and other fans on official social media like X (Tw****r). From there, you can also find some legit fujo groups to join. Good luck!

Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty October 18, 2024 2:41 am

Real ones don't spend their time surrounded by low lifes who have misogynistic views like some incels in OP's answers. Overexplaining and narcissistic incel views are prevalent.

Enchantress October 18, 2024 4:28 am
Real ones don't spend their time surrounded by low lifes who have misogynistic views like some incels in OP's answers. Overexplaining and narcissistic incel views are prevalent. Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty

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Father PeeDoodi October 24, 2024 2:50 am

Yeah. I used to be a solo fujo until I met my other female friends in college. We read official BLs and avoid toxic illegal male readers who are not native speakers of the comics that we were reading and discussing about since they tend to project certain things to us. Girls are not asking for permission from incels and outsiders (misogynistic male readers) to explore their sexuality through BL.

Briar Rose Sleeping Beauty October 24, 2024 7:01 pm
Yeah. I used to be a solo fujo until I met my other female friends in college. We read official BLs and avoid toxic illegal male readers who are not native speakers of the comics that we were reading and discus... Father PeeDoodi

You go girl

Sweetcake October 25, 2024 12:23 pm
cherryspring October 31, 2024 11:16 am

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yulin October 16, 2024 4:03 pm

I think as long as the characters are fictional and no real human is being hurt , we all have the right to enjoy what we like without being hated on.

Shipping two characters happens all the time in literature, same goes for bl/yaoi works. It's just a piece of art to be entertained. No need to hate on someone's creative work or readers who love that work.
!!( ̄へ ̄)

Hajun October 16, 2024 12:27 pm

Eh true wtv u said I didn't read all but just don't let them come near my gay ass cus the last time that happened they traumatised me

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