I'm getting married in a year or so, what aesthetic should I pick?

Ya guys got any ideas how to make it fun? My s/o got preggie so like ofc I can't leave them now and although I'm not the father I'll still love the child like my own (they didn't cheat and iykyk) anyways I'm not catholic or any religion but my s/o is catholic. Do yall think goth wedding would be fun? I can't decide between different aesthetics I asked my friends but they're all basic bitches.