I wish i was those soft-spoken and soft voices having girls
like why i am so out of touch with my femininity, and why am i SO EMBARRASSED ABOUT BEIMG FEMININE TOO??!?? I wish I had the courage to wear skirts, make up etc etc
whenever i put on a skirt or make-up or even doing my nails, i feel so uncomfortable and feel like a pig who tryna be a human ｡°(°.◜ᯅ◝°)°｡
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i have a soft voice and i wish i had a strong one we want what eachother has and thats ok we just gotta learn to accept what we have maybe youll fine you like what you have after all so think about the pros as for the femininity thing maybe on social meria like instagram follow hyper feminine girlw who like to dress up and do all the stuff u wanna do maybe itll get you more used to being around it and even look for friends who like that stuff
I am literally doing that it ain't helping
evb wants a soft voice until ur basically getting ignored whenever u say anything bc no one can hear you. also no ones stopping u from being feminine life is too short do wtv the hell u want trust me no one cares ab you (as in what you do) most people r like you and r too caught up in thinking ab what other people think of them its just a endless loop so break free and be free :)
Well there are people who stopping me my parents they harass me any way they can so if I pull up with makeup and wearing dress too they gonna slut shame me
my parents do that too, i understand. i hope things become easier and lets take comfort in the fact that when we become adults we can do whatever the fuck we want
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But anyway before I noticed that I wrote this: Are you me? Cuz this is exactly how I feel sometimes. To be honest though for me it’s cuz I get uncomfortable with the attention that come with those things. I also don’t have such a high self image so I can really relate to the whole pig trying to be human thing. All you can do is work everyday to make yourself feel better and if you put in work to improve you’ll eventually feel better about yourself atleast that’s what I’m doing
Traditional feminity is both desirable and frowned upon. You're not alone in this.
I just want to emphasize the "traditional". Feminity is being a woman and there are no rules to it. Every day you live you are your most feminine self and there is nothing that can go against that. What is considered feminine by society changes every day and in every place... sometimes it's being pink and soft and well groomed, sometimes it's being strong and leading. One day thin, another thick, one day long hair another short.
But if you do like traditional femininity (like I do, at least the visuals) embrace it. Don't be embarrassed. But you have to know that it comes with its downsides too... tradiontally feminine women are not taken seriously very often and you will be put into a box. Don't let that stop you though, this goes for whatever you will do in your life. Us women, we can never win.
Pick your battles and your losses. If you want to be traditionally feminine, be it.
And remember that you are feminine no matter what you do <3