Why do people hang out with people they don't like?

I just learnt one of my friends doesn't like me, or basically anyone in our friend group besides his boyfriend and its left me wondering like, why is he even hanging out with us?
I do have a history with him from accouple years ago, he did some nasty stuff to my best friend however they became friends again and so I became friends with him again as well. He DOESNT like my best friend either (even though he became friends with her again???) and tried to stop his friends from speaking to us but it somehow worked out that I joined the friend group.

like man if you literally just outright said you didnt like me bc of the shit which happened (WHICH WAS YOUR FAULT.) I wouldn't have became friends with you again man.

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lash 05 10,2024

real like why cant we all just be friends and kiss reply

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Hajun 05 10,2024

I don't know tbh like just go tell me u don't like me instead of making me think we're friends and letting everything be one sided cus that's just cruel. I want everyone to have fun! Like sorry if I accidentally offended you-- but hey man it's not like we can't talk it out instead of building up grudges against me just make it clear cus it takes me...... reply

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Grogg 05 10,2024

Their opinion of you is also going to change the longer they know you. So yall might start out bffs but in the end one or both of yall aren’t feeling it. A lot of things could affect it Fear of confrontation Guilt Nostalgia Friend groups are mutual Fear of being alone Unsure if they want to break that connection Being comfortable Kind of t...... reply

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Kyaah The EdgeLord 05 10,2024

Sometimes it's the peer pressuring. You're forced to hang out with that someone, this just my pov of being friends with people who were obv a toxic influence. You don't wanna get abandoned so u make sure ur not doing anything to upset them. reply

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Hako 05 10,2024

It's probably because he's trying to get along with you due to his bf being friends with you, you can dislike someone while also tolerating them for the peace of everyone else reply

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Reggie 05 10,2024

To answer your title question: i have only done it because i had no reason to hate them/never felt close enough to like them fully as a friend/to keep the peace, so i just remain polite if theres equal respect. Otherwise if I believe that its better off not being friends due to my own beliefs or something thats happened ill try to end it amicably (...... 1 reply

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Cruchy_rollers 05 10,2024

Idk man, I only hang out with the people I like and drop anybody I deem toxic reply

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NanoFateHK33 05 10,2024

Yeah, I would like to know too; just on a forum on this website someone said they don't like their friend to show them self-harm wounds and if this freind want to kill themselves then they do that why do they have to show their self-harm wounds, and girl why the fuck are you a friend to them on the first place if you don't care about them killing t...... reply

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