Was... I wrong for getting upset at... These strangers for not liking their advices?
This happened long time ago, actually it's been a year practically already now. I was upset at them for talking on how I should leave the relationship and not to hear my lover out when it just personally goes against my moral codes and I really still loved this person. It was a shock to me when they did smth. I get where they're coming from, a place of concern but it's just I hated it, the thought of leaving this person because it's not that im delusional.
It's that I know this person didn't mean it considering he himself was an advocate for stuff like this. No he didn't r-word me, nor that he has done this in the past... It was a first. It felt cruel to me to like treat someone like that. He's a person too and if anything I know he was afraid to make wrongs towards me. I tried to keep defending him like this but they kept booing me... I didnt rlly like that.
Even after this incident after months, he's honestly proven himself to me and just well grown from it but still constantly say sorry for that time but idk they were still on abt it. Saying he'll do it again and yadah yadah but i was upset cus we're trying to move on from that and grow from it. But... They were just concerned right?
From what I learn
Yes they probably said it out of concerned but the way you say it . It sounds like their probably mocking you as well
You see , I think that those friend or whoever . Gave you those advices seem to care but not out of love for you . Probably out of the fact they want something to gossips
People can be deceiving and hurtful so......
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