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Woman writing bl is not the problem the fetishizing is. There are many bl's written by men who are just as good but can be EVEN WORST (example "highschool boy" and "boyfriends" both awful representations) just like many men write yuri which you can also think is weird and not as good as the ones written by lesbian/bi women. Calling yourself a fujos......   4 reply
30 09,2024
It's not like anyone is stopping men from writing bl. If they wanted to, they would.   2 reply
30 09,2024
there is nothing wrong with women writing bl and the reason why it's mostly women writing them is simply that not nearly as many men are into bl compared to women. i find it so weird and hypocritical of you to criticise them for writing the bl YOU consume. i understand wanting to read bl written by men and there are plenty out there dw (starting wi......   2 reply
30 09,2024
Have you ever thought that MAYBE these women may be non-het and/or non-cis? Like lesbian, bi, transmasc etc etc???? The idea that only cismen should/could create MLM works reeks of misogyny and transphobia.   3 reply
30 09,2024
This question pops up regularly here, and I gotta say that as a gay man, it has never bothered me (and idk how many of the complainers are gay men themselves). Yeah, of course it's not realistic - most stories aren't realistic anyway. I doubt the het stories are even remotely realistic either. In other words: this is clearly (?) an issue based on ......   5 reply
30 09,2024
totally agree w u bestie. i find it sad that every single bls i find are wrote by women. i don’t think they do a really good job as writing bls since they’ve not experienced mlm relationships and will never. like, i’m only talking about yaois but 99% of the time, when i read a bl all the sex scenes are horribly written ain’t gonna open my ......   2 reply
30 09,2024
clearly my summer child, you haven't read a single Bara which are works written for gay men by gay men-- 95% of those are dehumanizing as heck, much more brutal, more sexualized, and frankly just in to serve as as p*rn w/o plot; the only difference is that the character design are more masculine and bear-y and you can't say shizz about it coz oh, i......   2 reply
30 09,2024
Most people in this thread need to read Until I Met My Husband which is based on an essay written by an actual Japanese gay activist about their life and even he mentions that BL/Yaoi doesn’t have the same objective as him. Majority of BL is written by women for other women, it’s not great because a lot of it fetishizes gay men. Women can total......   reply
30 09,2024
Such a confusion opinion overall becauss your whole take comes apart from this statement alone -> "like i'm a girl too and i enjoy bl" yeah so you've never had a fantasy and wanted to write it down? Why is it soooo weird that people want to make AND consume media that they like? You're the one enjoying it but it's weird the same people like you enj......   1 reply
30 09,2024
it will always be weird for bl to be mostly read and written by women. a demographic obsessively writing and reading about another demographic that has nothing to do with them will always be odd, especially when it comes to r18 content. it's one thing to read bl as a woman, but to ONLY read bl and nothing else? yeah you're a weirdo you can argue w/......   3 reply
30 09,2024
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