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I'm actually curious about this, but when a relationship ends how come everyone just like say "oh he's/she's bad" like blah blah all just shit talking but like yk at some point you guys genuinely had fun, you enjoyed and care for each other. Suddenly all you see in that person is that they're awful and like no more further than that.

This is a situational question so it depends on yall experience ofc, but let me be more specific. I'm talking about relationships where one wasn't using you for their own gain or has been backstabbing you all this time. I'm talking about those ones where it ACTUALLY was awesome and healthy. Then that ONE fight it all ended and all the things you can only say abt the other person is just the negative stuff even though u liked them alot. So why is this?

Obv it depends on how bad the fallout became but I'm just curious, could you still see the person in a good spotlight? See them changing?

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Wanda 30 09,2024

I personally have never talked shit about my ex. We were toxic to each other because we were not a good match. But that doesn't make either of us bad people. We dated for 2 years and even tho I'm not in love with him anymore, I felt loved by him during the time we were together. I think he's a great guy tbh. I hope he accomplishes his goals and fin...... reply

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Ugly_Rose 30 09,2024

I don't know, I mean one hand they were the best friends I could have for a social anxiety ridden teen could have during the oddest part of my life but on the other hand I could see them for their fake self's who they all believed to be all high and mighty. they gave me many good memories, but the bad ones just stick to me more than the good ones, ...... reply

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Smiles 30 09,2024

Yes ! You can see them change I have been in about 1-2 relationships before but all I can say is that the possibility of seeing them change is a yes and you can definitely see that person in a better spotlight 2 reply

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Elle ne parle pas francais 30 09,2024

Yes!!! I don't get it. If your ex was awful then ofc you are very right in complaining about them but you can't tell me that every person only has bad exes. Most relationships just fall out at some point and both people aren't assholes. Yet it's always "that's my ex" - "ohhh so we hate him?" NO. Even my toxic ex best friend who caused many of my un...... reply

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Rexpyl 30 09,2024

when i first broke up with my first ex, i talked a lotta shit about it because it annoyed me how he talked about it to everyone, even my friends. looking back now, i think i was immature for talking so much about him. after a month, i eventually stopped talking about him because at the end of the day, he was someone i was able to be myself around a...... reply

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Kyaah 30 09,2024

If I'm gonna be honest I hated them at some point and like talk crap about them but it's immature of me but it's the only way I could let go but ik myself they're not that shitty people, they made me want to live and etc like I appreciated life cause of them and I hope for god sake they know that. It's why I'm struggling to move on cause of the goo...... reply

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Theore 30 09,2024

Idk idgaf about them anymore. They tire me out so fucking bad. They kept on saying how we GREW APART but thwiyre the one shutting me off. I sent them something, since I know they would want me to message first, their ego is as high as the mount reverest, and there's no way they would be the one to say something first (when I posted a rant on an jg...... reply

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spagetiii 30 09,2024

i currently have this friend, she's nice, she's pretty, she's outgoing, friendly and just very kind. but even all that she makes me anxious at times, she says over insensitive things that aren't funny just because i can't change it doesn't give her the right to criticise it. i def want to point it out since i want to be friends for a long time bu...... reply

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mooznnn 30 09,2024

Idk girl I have never experienced such thing been single since birth 1 reply

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轻轻落下来的叶子 01 10,2024

It's because there is pre-sex and post-sex relationship. I think people seem to misunderstand when you're in a new relationship, both of you are going to walk on eggshells. There is a saying that the best friends are ones you don't know all that well. There is a reason why that's a saying... and it's because when you don't know someone all that we...... reply

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