Okay question for yall...

Idk how to word it but...

What's the difference between leaving a relationship not saying shit abt the drama but however u want to keep ur other friends so you stay in touch vs leaving but talking abt the drama immediately to ALL of your friends while the other party can't even be there to defend themselves?

Doesn't matter who's right or wrong here, the point is that it was a only beef between you guys. No one else is affected bec their relationship with others are fine.