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What's the difference between leaving a relationship not saying shit abt the drama but however u want to keep ur other friends so you stay in touch vs leaving but talking abt the drama immediately to ALL of your friends while the other party can't even be there to defend themselves?

Doesn't matter who's right or wrong here, the point is that it was a only beef between you guys. No one else is affected bec their relationship with others are fine.

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Hajun is swaggot 25 09,2024

Personally for me the 2nd one is wrong because it seems to me that you just want everyone to hate the other person because you guys fought. Ranting exist ofc however there's a difference between just venting/explaining abt the situation vs someone just doing it to make themselves seem more right and make someone choose a side. You'd lowkey know thi...... 2 reply

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eternallyeepy 25 09,2024

there's a difference between 'this is why im not talking to them anymore' and 'im cutting this person off so you have to do the same'. if you guys are in the same friend group the topic would have to come up eventually anyway 1 reply

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NanoFateHK33 25 09,2024

I'm going to tell others about my beef I HAVE to rant to someone or I will have hours of breakdown, and some people are fake super fake but somehow they always show their real face to me because they see me as a loser who won't benefit them with anything; I'm going to tell others about that face of theirs they won't believe me but hey at least I go...... 1 reply

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Hako 25 09,2024

Personally I'd rather choose the first one. If (hypothetically) both parted on bad terms but person A hasn't said anything about person B, it's kinda bitter of person B to go around airing the dirty laundry when you can just shut up and avoid further conflict. At most I can agree with telling a vague summary of what happened to concerned people who...... reply

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LeRain 25 09,2024

I'm actually in this situation. I didn’t talk about it with my other friends, because it was a private fight between me and that one friend. Honestly, I just let that person go, and don’t plan to spend any more of my time thinking and talking about them than I need. Maybe someday I'll bring it up. reply

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Ugly_Rose 25 09,2024

I already lost all my friends due to them leaving and going to a different schools or me losing their number sooo- but being fr and by answering your question I'm the type of person to just not talk to them, I'll tell my side of the story if it's involved me but legit I'm the type of person to listen to the tea of how the drama started and watch t...... 1 reply

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Chanslaptop 25 09,2024

Well I had this friend who talked shit about everyone including me, let’s call her Lisa. I was usually with my friend, let’s call her Bella. When we all found out that Lisa had said bad thing about us, like body shaming and stuff I didn’t want to be friends with her anymore. But then later, Lisa and Bella became best friends even when Bella ...... reply

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轻轻落下来的叶子 25 09,2024

Doing the first one is bad for you, good for your friends because you don't know if your friends will leak drama about you. Doing the second one is good for you, bad for your friends, but it could also make people think you are bad, so you have to be careful about when and how you do it. In terms of whether or not to do it, it depends on what kin...... reply

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mikurua 25 09,2024

man people here are better than me because I'm tellin EVERYBODY n they mama. my friends r my friends and if smth bad happens to where I'm not friends with someone in our group I HAVE to vent. its not like I tell em to pick sides, I mean we're adults they can pick their friends however they want. it also definitely depends on how u spill the tea and...... reply

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