I'm a Red flag or They're just Homophobic.
My boyfriend know that I read BL and he's a but against. because he's also lowkey homophobic Lol. Like I don't even ship real guys, I know what fiction and reality. Then he send me some screenshots of their friends group chat talking about me that I'm a red flag and be careful because I read that stuff. I was like, wth? I asked him what was his answer to them. He say that he just reacted HAHA on their message and did not reply. I was hurt as hell. He didn't even protect me. Notes that they're all boys in that GC. They always talk shit about other people in their group chat and mock gay people :(
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Gurl.... LEAVE HIM
IDK IF LEAVING HIM MIGHT HURT YOU BUT I JUST KNOW THAT YOU WILL REMOVE BURDEN ON YOUR SHOULDER AFTER LEAVING HIM
YOU CAN'T BE WITH A GUY WHO NEVER SUPPORTED YOU
YOU SHOULD NOT BE WITH A GUY THAT HAS FRIENDS THAT ARE BACKSTABBER.
I AM TELLING YOU, LEAVE HIM WHILE YOUR LOVE POINT FOR HIM IS AT 40%
I'm with everyone here telling you to break up ofc. but I also like to add another angel is him telling them your business. why did he do that? his haha reaction didn't seem like he was at lost of words. ig them laughing at you is his motive to begin with.
and I believe that this is not the only issue in the relationship.
Well I often share posts or reacted any post related to gay stuff, because I'm open about it, because why not? maybe they saw some of them then start talking about it in their GC. Yeah, you're right. thats not the only issue, like there's a lot
You are wrong honey . He is the one who is RED FLAG as well as HOMOPHOBE. I don't see you living happily with him in the future either . A man who doesn't defend you right now ain't gonna defend you in the future either. That trash . And about being awkward cuz he in same class , don't be awkward act happy even if you aren't like you having time of your life after dumping him. He gotta regret mistreating you.
I'm just too shy and I don't know what to do but I have courage now. Thank you so much.
Gurl being shy ain't going to cut it, break up with him through text
Tell him that you're bored of him and he's not fun that he's boring as an old man
Send that to him in ONE SEND BECAUSE I GUARANTEE YOU THAT HE'S GONNA SCREENSHOT IT AND CUT IT BEFORE SENDING IT TO HIS LOSER FRIENDS
SO SEND IT IN ONE GO SO HE WON'T BE ABLE TO CUT IT
literally break up, its honestly so annoyin for me too how i can't tell people if im consuming lgbt media. if i talk to other people about my fave gl they'd assume im a lesbian and if i talk about bl they'd assume im a weirdo that fetishises gay people
im so fuckin sick of it, i have 0 interest in people romantically and yet that gets thrown out the window when i talk about the movies i watch and the books i read
i dont wanna feel suffocated in my own circle. you should leave that relationship and find someone that actually sticks up for you and isn't society's little puppet parotting on whats right and whats wrong
That's true. He also asked me if I'm willing to change my religion to his. Like Hell No LOL. Thanks, I've gained courage to you guys to break up with him.
im telling you now to break up. is this guy the man you want to be with for the rest of your life? you marry, and when people make fun of you he laughs instead of defending you? please leave.
NU-UH. HELL NO. Better live the rest of my life with my cats.
Cats are best
He's a piece of shit if I'm being honest and so is his friends I would break up if I was you bc he clearly doesn't respect you but at the end of the day it's up to you
Yeah, Im planning on breaking up with him. But, his my classmate that so awkward if I see him around bro LOL. Well whatever his a trash anyways, he don't deserve my attention.