I've been feeling really really lonely lately
I broke contact with a lot of people a year ago and had struggled to meet new friends that last more than a day (we hang out when we meet and then never talk again)
I have my long time friends group that I knew from school, but now school is over and they're all starting their life and moving away. We still keep in contact and meet occasionally, but it has begun being difficult because of everyone being busy and stuff. It's not like we're all still in the same school and see each other every day.
I used to be a way better "texter" but now I find myself struggling to keep conversations going and keep contact in general. So even talking to online friends regularly is getting difficult for me.
The only people I talk to every day are my parents.
Lately I've begun work (kinda, it's more complicated) but I still feel really lonely even though the people there are nice and stuff.
I fear I'm starting to get into a major depressive episode again and I don't know what to do
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Its a new story for you to have job that is why you dont know what to do
your too overwhelmed and don't know what to do next
I suggest resting and charge ALL your energy until you want to speak up
Dont bottle your emotions if you cant handle say it
I know its not easy but you have too
Humans are not that good if they are lonely
And for your questions how that felt?
Its like your spiling all the water in your bottle in the plant and you making yourself better and the plant becoming greatful for spilling all the water because they will know you much better
If you really hate talking things like that then talk to stranger its much better to talk to someone you don't know than the person you know
Keep walking until you will say FUCK EVERYONE I WILL MAKE MY LIFE GOOD
Also try creating new hobby (cooking as hobby is good i recommended it)
(Stop listening to sad music stop liking sad post stop looking for something sad they will just ruin you and u will just think negative)
It’s understandable that after breaking contact with a lot of people, you’d be struggling to find new connections that stick. Meeting new friends as an adult can be hard, and it often takes time to find those lasting connections again. The fact that you’re trying is important, even if it feels like the connections aren't sticking as easily as they once did.You’re not alone, even if it feels like it right now. It’s okay to take things one step at a time, and you deserve care and support. You're still so important (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
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Actually maybe ur just into Face to face talking rather than talking in phone and your probably just realizing ur friend and u are not that connected (deeply connected) i suggest nothing because it happen you just need to keep forward and walk even there is something bad happen you just have to rest and charge your energy for your next shit happen (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ (sorry for English)
I’m sorry to hear that that’s happening to you. Do you have a sibling or parent to talk too about it? Maybe try meeting your coworkers outside of work? Both of those are things that help me when I feel like that (and having a good cry). If none of that works, have you considered talking to a professional?
I'm an only child, I've talked to my mom about this but how is that gonna help?
I've only started the job a few days ago and it's an hour drive for me to get there so I don't live near the other people
I've been getting mental help for years, I still feel like this