Am I aro/ace

Ok so I know I'm bisexual and aromatic (aka I CAN'T feel romantic attraction to males or females but I CAN feel sexual attraction to both female and male) but I don't know if I might be ace or not like I'm pretty sure I have felt sexual attraction and some times I'm ok with the thought of sex if I'm really horny but at the same time thinking about having sex when I'm in the right state of mind it makes me REALLY uncomfortable and tbh I think sex is kinda gross no matter if it's a guy or girl like 99% of the time I would rather not have sex but 1% of the time I'm ok with it? So basically I'm sometimes ok with having sex in theory but most of the I'm not in real life but at the same time I know being ace means you CAN'T feel sexual attraction but I can I'm pretty sure so idk but I did see someone say you can still be ace even if you can feel sexual attraction as long as you don't like and feel uncomfortable/gross about sex and you don't want to do it but idk if this is true or not? Oh i did kiss a girl before but it was really innocent and short and I was fine with it and I even liked the kiss but I can't imagine myself going any further than that no matter if it's a girl or guy so like what do you guys think? Could I be aro/ace or nah?

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Oriole 20 08,2024

I think you could, there’s a chance that the ‘sexual’ attraction you’re feeling is just aesthetic attraction (I believe it’s called) and some ace people can still kiss as far as i’m aware/don’t always feel repulsed to the idea of sex. It’s a very complicated thing with lots of grey areas though, I think the most important thing is w...... reply

20 08,2024

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