Am I aro/ace

Ok so I know I'm bisexual and aromatic (aka I CAN'T feel romantic attraction to males or females but I CAN feel sexual attraction to both female and male) but I don't know if I might be ace or not like I'm pretty sure I have felt sexual attraction and some times I'm ok with the thought of sex if I'm really horny but at the same time thinking about having sex when I'm in the right state of mind it makes me REALLY uncomfortable and tbh I think sex is kinda gross no matter if it's a guy or girl like 99% of the time I would rather not have sex but 1% of the time I'm ok with it? So basically I'm sometimes ok with having sex in theory but most of the I'm not in real life but at the same time I know being ace means you CAN'T feel sexual attraction but I can I'm pretty sure so idk but I did see someone say you can still be ace even if you can feel sexual attraction as long as you don't like and feel uncomfortable/gross about sex and you don't want to do it but idk if this is true or not? Oh i did kiss a girl before but it was really innocent and short and I was fine with it and I even liked the kiss but I can't imagine myself going any further than that no matter if it's a girl or guy so like what do you guys think? Could I be aro/ace or nah?

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Peepaw 20 08,2024

Asexuality is a pretty broad spectrum. There are sex repulsed aces who hate anything to do with sex, but there's a lot more than just that. Like you could be completely fine with the idea of having sex and get horny but not be actually sexually attracted to anyone and you're still asexual. There are asexual people who have sex with their partners. ...... reply

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NanoFateHK33 20 08,2024

the commenters are way too mean, for people who care about kids too much and rant about society hating kids you sure seem to care about them by the way you act toward OP. girl, don't listen to people here you can label yourself anything, if you see yourself that way then you are that way; if it's turned out in the future that you were wrong it's fi...... 1 reply

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Oriole 20 08,2024

I think you could, there’s a chance that the ‘sexual’ attraction you’re feeling is just aesthetic attraction (I believe it’s called) and some ace people can still kiss as far as i’m aware/don’t always feel repulsed to the idea of sex. It’s a very complicated thing with lots of grey areas though, I think the most important thing is w...... reply

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TheSuperBunny 20 08,2024

At your age I used to identify as a complete aroace, about three years ago I developed a crush on my best friend who I've known for 9-10 years. That made me realize that I'm not completely aroace although I still think I'm on the aroace spectrum. I think part of it is getting more comfortable with my body and identity as I transitioned and had me...... reply

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Night of Ecstasy 20 08,2024

ACE HERE! Asexuality is very broad. Some asexuals don't feel anything, some still have sexual desires that aren't that strong (like me), and some are sex obsessed. So while I can't for sure tell you if you're ace or not I can tell you that it isn't as black or white as it's portrayed in media. (If you're diagnosed with autism it's possible that p...... reply

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jaes snakes 20 08,2024

u have a lot of time to decide, its ur choice 1 reply

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Changbin salon 20 08,2024

I'm an aroace who thought that I was bi in middle school till 2nd grade of highschool ( in my country we have 3 years middle school and 3 highschool) In 2nd grade of highschool I discovered I'm actually aro and I indetified as aro and bi and then a year later I realized that was not bi at all in fact I was aroace all along The thing with asexual...... reply

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