I am a bit lost

I am in my late twenties and I ve never been in a relationship because I was pretty busy with life I would say , now that i reached my career goals and started to finally notice the people who approach me to engage into something I feel so flustered , anxious and scared that I don't even agree to give them a chance to know them and I feel like garbage afterwards. So any tips to overcome this fear and stop feeling like a weirdo ?

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[DELETED] 13 08,2024

Honestly, don't be scared to feel like a weirdo if you never got into a relationship. Getting into a relationship is a social construct, you don't have to be in one to feel worthy of something. Loving yourself is worth something. As for me, I am dedicating my life to myself. I get to enjoy things I haven't done in a while. If I do want to get int...... reply

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Babo 13 08,2024

Embrace it…. Speaking from personal experience as a guy approaching his 31 without having any friends or significant other haha!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ reply

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Elle ne parle pas francais 13 08,2024

Honestly you just have to do the hard thing and face it.... if you want to, that is. Everyone has a different journey with relationships, some do them easily, some don't. Some easily fall in love, some don't. People have different priorities and it's okay to have taken time. What is it that you are scared of? Because you don't know how to handle it...... reply

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Chanslaptop 13 08,2024

No cuz same reply

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Peepeepoopooarmy 13 08,2024

Hi there, similar situation here! Well…sorta…Came out of my bachelors degree with 0 relationship experience, not even so much as a crush on another person and felt like I could never be in a relationship with another person because of my inexperience. Somehow ended up with a boyfriend recently in my mid twenties and let me tell you, when you’...... reply

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Dead Ass Reader 13 08,2024

Maybe thing about what you want or if you actually desire someone in the first place . If you’ve done that know what you want and just struggle because of overthinking just stop. Sometimes it’s not that deep and even if it doesn’t last it’s an experience good or bad and that’s how you learn and improve. Dating is a skill sometimes that yo...... reply

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CUKAI$ 13 08,2024

Be demure be mindful be cutesy and everything will work out don't do too much and just do enough and remember be mindful 1 reply

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ΛЯΛDIΛ 13 08,2024

take baby steps: start from being friends and getting to know each other better ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ reply

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WoahMama 13 08,2024

I recommend trying to be friends with people first with the thought of possible dating instead of just dating. You might try dating apps and talking/texting people from those. From my experience, a lot of it is just talking for a lot of people. It might help you get used to it this helped me when I felt this way a few years ago. I also recommend th...... reply

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