Coworker crush
This is my go-to vent web, so what does it mean when a guy,who was your ex-situationship and coworker, invites you out to eat after closing and you have a great time, but you found out that same night while eating tgt that he has a gf through his lockscreen, so I just congratulated him but still find out weird that we went out only us alone while him having a gf. Fast forward 4 days later he not longer has his gf in his lock-screen, when I ask him about his gf he said he didn’t have one?? And like 2 days later he called to see how I was doing after months of no contact?? “Not really “no contact” cuz we work tgt but I mean in like texting/calling way”. I still like him a lil, is it weird to get your hopes up? Tbh I find the whole gf weird, but one of these nights he introduced me to his mom??
He sounds like a red flag.
You should trust your gut with the girlfriend situation. It might be hard, but build some walls around him.
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11 08,2024
Could happen to be a misunderstanding here. What if it just wasn't his girlfriend? You just gather out all the other possibilities. Idk if he isn't hard to talk to maybe as him who was that girl on his phone and play it out that you thought it was his girlfriend and see his reaction. That's the best I can tell for this situation
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11 08,2024
