So, you can actually be so happy you wanna die?
Trigger warning ig for suicidal thoughts. I've been having them since I was like fourteen, and now I'm twenty-five, so they are nothing new for me, just a regular occurrence at this point. And I've rarely ever thought myself close to making them into reality, my survival instincts are holding me hostage. I probably just like a fantasy of being able to escape.
Now, last few months were quite grim and depressing for me, working hard for barely enough to survive, studying hard but just feeling stupider with each new page, the girl I was (as a girl) in a sort of "committed situationship-trial relationship" with dumped me because she "failed" to fall in love with me - I could never admit to her how deeply and bitterly this whole thing scarred me, I already gave her way too much - and now a friend who means a lot to me, who is one of my rare sources of happiness, and yes, who I've had a limerent crush on, especially after being dumped, cut me off completely and I dk why. Aside from music, content I can find on the internet and a pretty cloud or a flower here and there I don't really have sources of happiness.
but it was a nice day today. no problems at work, many people seemed to be smiling, happy and content, weather was pretty, flowers were pretty, girls were pretty, dogs were cute. while coming home from work tonight, I was hit with just the right song, that seemed to perfectly gather and communicate all the chaotic and unruly wonderfulness of life - and it all came over me like a wave, and everything was shiny and precious and just right.
I felt so elated I thought I had to die at that exact moment. I want to die now. I could die now. I don't want to live past this point. But, would I not be sad to leave such a wonderful life? It must have so much to offer. no, I want to die NOW because it's wonderful NOW, and it has already given me much, it's giving me NOW. I could, I should, jump in front of one of the passing cars. It would hurt, more then a worst migraine or a broken foot, but it would be worth it if tonight could me my last night ever.
but I couldn't do it, of course, it was just another fantasy, if an especially vivid one. my survival instincts were too strong, and all the cars were just too slow.
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Wе aгe aссustoмed to бear haгdshiрs easieг тhan to бear Нappiпess.
Wе neeд iт in дoses, beфore wе acceпt iт as ouг "пew" дesтiny.
Happy things make me sad because I can’t have it. I get so jealous I could die lol. I get that tho, wanting to end on a high note. What tethers me here is my cat :) if something happened to me then she’d be sad, which she doesn’t deserve. Idk but I get the high happiness leading to a lowness, even thought I don’t get it the same way as you. I had an incident in the past with the person who used to be my best friend in the world. It still affects me, but I have someone to care for now (my cat!). So even if I find it hard trying to be better for myself, I can try to be better for her. As her owner, Im her world and I want her to live in a better world. Im not too knowledgeable on this stuff, but maybe get a pet? Maybe then you can find your happiness with it, and be happy with being its happiness? Idk, but I hope however your life ends up going, you know that you have had an impact on people and the world and your life hasn’t been for naught. :)
I'm really happy for you having your cat, that's precious, and I get how those little shits can get you out of the bad on any day, and how they can make the same day nicer if it feels shitty. I've had two, and I loved them dearly, but they both disappeared four months ago. first the female one, and than the male one. she never left far from home before, so that worried me instantly, but for him I wasn't worried much in the beginning, 'cause he is a wanderer, but always comes home within a day. I still look for them wherever I go
I still have a third cat, but she hates everyone, including me hahahh
Ah yes cats are funny that way, hating people. I hope your babies find their way home to you, or have found somewhere safe and happy. :)