What they did to you is disgusting. What's sad is you likely won't be the last in the friend group to be assaulted and outcasted. By treating your experience as nothing, they are showing the perpetrator that what they did is ok. Since the circle has condoned their behavior, they will do it to someone else and that person will be more scared of saying anything after seeing how you were treated.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Please know that none of this is your fault. Their actions are theirs alone.
there was still a month left before vacation and i had to bear the anxiety whenever i went inside the room they were at. i can see their giggles and whispers like to them, my experience was a joke. then it got to the point where i questioned why they did me like that, maybe it was my fault for saying something, or maybe im the problem for not taking what my assaulter did as a joke.
when school ended, i broke down nearly everyday from the chest pain because my body couldn't handle the accumulated stress they caused me. my assaulter was also my best friend so it really took a toll on me but i realized they were shitty people anyway.
a genuine thank you for saying this because i know to myself that the wounds they inflicted are never fully healed yet so reading this makes me feel heard and seen in a positive way. :>
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What they did to you is disgusting. What's sad is you likely won't be the last in the friend group to be assaulted and outcasted. By treating your experience as nothing, they are showing the perpetrator that what they did is ok. Since the circle has condoned their behavior, they will do it to someone else and that person will be more scared of saying anything after seeing how you were treated.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Please know that none of this is your fault. Their actions are theirs alone.
there was still a month left before vacation and i had to bear the anxiety whenever i went inside the room they were at. i can see their giggles and whispers like to them, my experience was a joke. then it got to the point where i questioned why they did me like that, maybe it was my fault for saying something, or maybe im the problem for not taking what my assaulter did as a joke.
when school ended, i broke down nearly everyday from the chest pain because my body couldn't handle the accumulated stress they caused me. my assaulter was also my best friend so it really took a toll on me but i realized they were shitty people anyway.
a genuine thank you for saying this because i know to myself that the wounds they inflicted are never fully healed yet so reading this makes me feel heard and seen in a positive way. :>