Tbo this seems like a you problem, that is going to become an issue over time if it didn't already. You keep doubting the person you're dating and wanting him to isolate himself so you can feel more comfortable, which just leads to frustration and causes hurt because it seems like he is just so untrustworthy and such scum that interacting with othe......
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That's how you lose friends and how you become a little isolated from them, it's like you believe being a friend is inferior to being a lover? And thus your friends are not as important or valued. It also shows that you believe fidelity can only be achieved if you cut people out of your day and make any genuine connection impossible and trust basically non existent,because if you must obey a certain set of limiting behaviors to be trusted, there is no actual trust there. It's not good for either person in the relationship.
not that deep but ok. just seems like OP got jealousy problems and you gotta admit it’s weird for a guy and a girl in this day and age to be hanging out alone.
It's not weird bro??
yikes
????????????? Are you an english person from the victorian age? And not a human being from the 21st century?
this is so heteronotmative its not 1843 please use your brain
Dude wha- Have you never had a friend of the opposite gender? Jesus Christ
do u mean heteronormative also bro i ain’t even straight what u mean
brooo i’m not, i’m actually not english but yes i was born in the 21st century
i have but im gonna limit the amount i spend with them if i have a partner, like this goes for any friends regardless of gender
yeah it is bro, i’m just saying like if a guy and a girl are both straight it’s kinda weird for them to be so close like that when the guy has a gf. like if that was me i’d limit interaction with them (more like most of my friends) cuz i have a partner
ok cuz im soooo skibidi sorry, let me rephrase. *If you’re hanging out with your MPS alone, it’s weird.
Hell nah people can be really close friends for years or decades, then you expect them to prioritize some, new gf/bf over best friends?
Well, circumstances can always differ
yes bro, if ur dating someone they should be prioritized. not saying you should drop the friends just that you should limit time with them cuz u got a partner
That's seriously problematic. I certainly wouldn't want a friend like you.
You've clearly never seen your good friend/best friend change 360 and spending time with a bf she suddenly got, over her friend group of years. It's annoying, it's painful and it feels very ungrateful.
um yeah sorry i want to hang out with my partner more than my friends. i never said i would not hang out with them at all, just that im going to probably spend my time with my s/o more
what’s with people on mangago thinking they can decide what other peoples lives are like?
anyway yeah i have, you just take it so personally. my bsf got a gf and she told the group that she won’t be spending as much time with us because of her gf. we legit didn’t care cuz that’s her life. not my fault it seems like you got shitty friends that can’t communicate
Alr man live however u like peace out
bless bro have a good life
sorry bro, i didn’t mean to be mean. i feel bad
Nah I ain't mad I understand me arguing won't change anything in anyone's behavior lol
Everyone's life n experiences vary, and ideals don't change easily
worddd, that’s facts. thanks bro wise words
the idea that a guy and girl cant hang out is solely based on the idea that those two people are straight and will be "instinctively" attracted to each other. its so stupid. What does that even mean do bisexual people have to become friends with non binary folk only or else shit becomes "weird"???? long story short its not weird to be friends with a homegirl or a homeboy and you need to touch some grass.
not that deep lil bro ur coming up w ur own stories i ain’t even say half of that shit. i’m just sayin like if you got a partner and you’re hanging around with your mps ALONE, without your partner or anyone else. that’s just weird. i ain’t even say they can’t be friends bruh, u making ur own shit up. i deadass meant like if ur a straight girl and hanging with w your bbsf ALON then yeah that’s fuckin weird.