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Hi so my friend invited me to her Quinceanera/ birthday party and my bf doesn’t want me to go and is saying he’ll break up with me if I go and will stop spending money on me and I don’t want to break up with him bc we’ve been together for 2 years now but I feel like he’s being controlling and irrational. He’s saying I’ll just wear pounds of makeup and wear something slutty and get ganged banged by guys…. But I told him I won’t wear anything crazy just a formal dress or something and show him but he doesn’t care. Me and my friend used to be close but we still talk and call every 2 months I’ve known her since the 8th grade. Should I still go to her birthday party?

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NanoFateHK33 09 07,2024

yes, and if you are not dependent on him ditch his ass he seems like a controlling dude and frankly abusive who uses money to control you, it's seems like an unhealthy relationship you are a free woman with free will and your own person don't let some man control you. sorry for shitting on your boyfriend 1 reply

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Sac of ramen noodles 09 07,2024

Girl if u don’t break up with that dumb ass lame ass boy. Don’t matter if you’re in a relationship lol he still has no right to TELL u what u cant and can wear LMAOO. He can put input if u want and allow that but not DICTATE. he ain’t yo damn daddy or ya mama. Put ya big woman panties AWHN and SHUT THAT NIGGA DOWN. I know this may sound ins...... reply

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Desgod 09 07,2024

Look, it’s valid to care and not want to break up with your boyfriend. You’re not wrong to care about him. But the way he’s talking to you, the things he’s he’s saying to you… Would YOU ever say anything remotely similar to someone you care about? Can you imagine ever being alright with making HIM feel the way he’s making YOU feel? I...... reply

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gir 09 07,2024

First of all, he’s giving an ultimatum for something that isn’t that serious and when you break it down it’s just him saying “it’s me or your friend”, which such a red flag. I understand that you guys have been together for two years but if he’s willing to drop all of that because you want to attend to your friend’s birthday then ...... reply

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OwlSeeYouLater 09 07,2024

No guy let alone one who you are dating should EVER talk to you this way. I don't know your life so I'm not judging you but girrrl it would not be me. That man would be out of my life so fast he'd break the sound barrier on his way out the door. Go to the party enjoy your life. reply

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natsuki_is_lost 09 07,2024

2 years isn’t that long. Break up with his ass before its 10/20 years and you’ve 2 of his kids. Him saying you'll be gangbanged is crazy comment. Trust me you don't wanna be with people like him and you're plenty young to be stuck with some lowlife like this reply

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Star 09 07,2024

Girl leave is sorry ass, he's threatening you with stupid shit that won't matter in a few years. Friendships matter as much as any other relationship. ontop of that, both of you are likely still young. He's projecting his insecurities onto you, which should tell you how bad and narcissistic of a person he is. Go to that party girl; what can he even...... reply

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Taro 09 07,2024

Girl leave THAT MAN. U just gave your self so many reasons why you should breakup and if this goes on, he will be more controlling and maybe abusive later on. Come on girl, enjoy life dont stay with that man and go to your friends birthday. That man is shit dont let him do that to you again. Xx reply

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HELPMELMAO 09 07,2024

read the first sentence and didnt need to read more, leave that whine ass, u can do better 1 reply

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Padme 09 07,2024

Hey, chicks before dicks. Even if you care about him, he shouldn’t threaten you like that. Don’t sacrifice a potential lifelong friendship for a dill weed that only likes the concept of a romantic partner. The fact that he is treating you like this makes me doubt that he cares about you as a person. I know that it’s hard to hear, but it’s d...... reply

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