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Hi so my friend invited me to her Quinceanera/ birthday party and my bf doesn’t want me to go and is saying he’ll break up with me if I go and will stop spending money on me and I don’t want to break up with him bc we’ve been together for 2 years now but I feel like he’s being controlling and irrational. He’s saying I’ll just wear pounds of makeup and wear something slutty and get ganged banged by guys…. But I told him I won’t wear anything crazy just a formal dress or something and show him but he doesn’t care. Me and my friend used to be close but we still talk and call every 2 months I’ve known her since the 8th grade. Should I still go to her birthday party?

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mewmeo 09 07,2024

Yeah dump that guy like him being controlling and irrational it’s a big red flag and would take a toll on your mental health and self esteem and u should go to her birthday party nothings wrong with reuniting and looking nice to the party your bf has no right to comment negatively on your looks he should’ve encouraged and love of who u are reply

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SomethingIDK 09 07,2024

Girl leave before you become a statistic 2 reply

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… 09 07,2024

From what you’ve posted dump him and go to the birthday. Dump him even if you don’t go to the birthday. He’s controlling you over a small thing now, it’ll only get worse. It sounds like you already tried to talk it out but if you want try talking it out one last time but have a firm stance. 1 reply

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BeeHive 09 07,2024

BREAK.UP. 1 reply

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kamisama 09 07,2024

Obvious dump, why would he say you’d get gang banged bc of ur outfit? Even if he’s just cautious/not wanting you to go, he shouldn’t say something like that Also “slutty”?? Wtf? Why you with a guy who calls you a slut for what you wear? That’s disrespectful as hell. He isn’t even listening to what you’re trying to say either. ANOTH...... reply

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embarrassedisanunderstatement 09 07,2024

Quinceanera? You guys are fifteen. FIFTEEN. Do not drop a meaningful relationship with your friend for a BOY that's trying to control you, especially not at this young ass age. Even if we don't consider your friend in this equation, your boyfriend should still not behaving this way with you. You're worth too much for this. Go to the party and have ...... reply

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PEEPEE- DRINKER 09 07,2024

So. His entire attitude is NOT healthy and he seems to be super childish. ALSO people who accuse their partner of cheating are usually actually cheating themselves. So be on the lookout for that. Go get tested for STIs right away because if he's cheating on you he is likely exposing you to a lot of risk for potential disease/infection. You should e...... 1 reply

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CabbagePanda 09 07,2024

Ur like what, 15? 16? Dump his ass kid, you literally have decades to find a better man. Go to the damn party.What is with all the kids posting about their serial killer psychopathic gaslighting boyfriends this week? reply

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轻轻落下来的叶子 09 07,2024

dump him, move on, and go to the birthday party to forget his sorry ass. 1. whether or not you go to a birthday party is none of his business 2. whether or not you wear makeup is none of his business unless it's compromising your health 3. what you wear is none of his business 4. if he gave a shit about your safety, he would offer to walk you arou...... reply

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GhostBear 09 07,2024

If the only reason you're not breaking up with his is bc you've been together for 2 years, you don't love him. You're probably thinking that those two years would go to waste but if you stay longer you'll be wasting what, 4? 6? 10? Years before you realize you've actually wasted time with this douche. Leave now while you still have time. If you can...... reply

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