AITA for complaining abt our maid ?
So where I live it's very common to have maids, they do stuff like laundry, cleaning, cooking.. just basic house work. We actually had 2, one of them quit bc she fought with my sister so my mom brought a new one.
The thing is !! She kinda pisses me off BECAUSE she doesn't do what she is supposed to do. Let me give you basic examples, on Eid she was supposed to wake up early and do some stuff but she woke up at 11am and we had to do everything super late. Another example, after we eat lunch she is supposed to wash the dishes BUT SHE NEVER DOES IT SO I HAVE TO DO IT. Like instead of doing the chores she just hangs out on the rooftop and calls her friends/family/idk.
Now, I was complaining abt this to my friend and she called me a privilege and spoilt asshole. Like excuse me??? She is getting PAID to work and she isn't doing so, why would I not complain?? If it was once or twice okay BUT IT'S LIKE THIS ALMOST EVERYDAY. She always let the 2nd maid do everything ts makes me maaaad. And also she speaks in an impolite tone, like I don't really care but if she was nice at least I could feel bad. Most of the time, the girls who take such job don't have a good financial situation, their family depends on them and the salary isn't THAT high so I kinda understand my friend but I still got mad at her.
So aita ??
Honestly, most of the young girls who are sent to someone’s house to work as a maid are not doing it willingly. Her family sent her there to work and rely on her for money, she herself doesn’t want to work and probably won’t see a cent of what she’s earning. It’s her job to wake up and work but she doesn’t want to. Rather than lashing o......
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07 07,2024
idk, but do you guys have like contract? handbook? policy? like there, it should be stated what she's supposed to do and if she failed to do it.. there would be a like a penalty, a deduction maybe? You guys are the employer and they're your employees and so does you pay them, so it is only right the she do her job. so I understand your frustration.......
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07 07,2024
It better to fire her than giving her free loads. Also your friend quite impolite to responsed like that. I mean even if she envy, she should be good listener and support you. Not saying about being spoiled. But still i think it can be handy if you guys help do house chores(without that lazy maid ofc fire her), it also increased your consistency an......
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07 07,2024
