toxic friends and your experiences

i know people fall out with their friends, but i lost most of all mine. only ones i have now are recent (i don't have any old friends that i've know for longer than a year). reason being is that i dropped them because i believed i was toxic (i was 13/14) and i dropped them when they were being mean/lowkey bullies (cringe but being fr. also talking sh1t about their own friends and their appearances bc of how insecure they were, i couldn't handle it because once I spoke up and told the person they ALL including the person i told isolated/ignored me).

i recently reached out and apologised, only half way to realise to myself why i dropped them.

im work best alone, but it hurts when i get purposefully isolated/ignored. but i don't mind being alone. I want to hear other people's experiences

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Innocent 01 07,2024

"I don't know, but I probably come across as the bully in their perspective. This happened after the pandemic when we returned to school. I have this friend whom I have known for like 6 months or more, and she likes to be absent from school. It's one of the things that irks me. Additionally, she tends to cheat in exams. One time, she got a low scor...... 4 reply

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martaleite 04 07,2024

So this is actually quite recent. And a bit complicated so I’m gonna simplify. (Disclaimer: long as hell) (this is just venting at this point) 2 years and half ago I joined a group of friends, because a) my close cousin was a part of it and b) I had a crush on this girl, let’s call her A, and at that point I had already kissed her. As I was b...... 1 reply

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琳 14 07,2024

Ngl I kinda wanna vent abit but I'm pretty sure the dude I dropped as a friend is lurking on this site and the possibility of him reading this kinda irks me :^ After I dropped him it was touch and go cause ultimately I had a "told you so" moment after I went to try and make things work, which tbh yea I was stupid but in retrospect it was just me i...... reply

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Mehatori 30 06,2024

So I had a friend for such a long time. So she once tried that "I wanna ruin our friendship" trend before and I thought she was confessing and got excited like a bitch..so tbh I had a crush on her like all along but I never knew since I was really naive and all back then. However she would always pull stuff like that then somehow turns me down..s...... reply

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macario 30 06,2024

I dropped someone because they thought they were all that and a bag of chips. I knew them since kindergarten and dropped like that. I dropped another person because i realized I was jealous of them and so created a situation where I was mad at them and gave myself a reason as to drop them. Thank god pandemic hit because I didn’t have to see them...... reply

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Nakyo 03 07,2024

Because of the way I was raised (always listening, never talking about myself, never speaking up) I was a real people pleaser. I would always ask questions and give advice to friends who would rely on me but they would never ask anything about me and I never learned to talk about myself but only listen. Then those "friends" accused me of being a ba...... reply

03 07,2024

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