toxic friends and your experiences

i know people fall out with their friends, but i lost most of all mine. only ones i have now are recent (i don't have any old friends that i've know for longer than a year). reason being is that i dropped them because i believed i was toxic (i was 13/14) and i dropped them when they were being mean/lowkey bullies (cringe but being fr. also talking sh1t about their own friends and their appearances bc of how insecure they were, i couldn't handle it because once I spoke up and told the person they ALL including the person i told isolated/ignored me).

i recently reached out and apologised, only half way to realise to myself why i dropped them.

im work best alone, but it hurts when i get purposefully isolated/ignored. but i don't mind being alone. I want to hear other people's experiences

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A_very_bored_Humanoid 30 06,2024

I just dropped one of my friends of 9 years. It was a long journey of her not being that good of a friend and me giving her the benefit of the doubt. She was constantly avoiding me and ignoring me, even when I was talking directly to her. But then every once in a blue moon she would be positive and hangout with me and be acting like we’ll be best...... 2 reply

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Lemon Candy! >ᴗ< 01 07,2024

Aight well I'm probably the toxic friend... :3 So it's after pandemic and I'm back in school, and I see this girl sitting behind me, let's call her R (all girls school) and I see this girl behind me and the teacher wants 4 ppl to go into a group, funny thing was me, the person next to me, R and the person next to R DO NOT want to speak for the gro...... 2 reply

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Hajun 29 06,2024

I wouldn't say they're really toxic but these past few months my mental health started to really get worse cause of them. (not them entirely) while I'm ok with ppl calling me out if I had a bad behaviour bc I want to improve for them but I can't always improve by myself, I need help. I need support and they were like "You'll just do it again" I fel...... 2 reply

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[DELETED] 30 06,2024

I've had plenty with them, some of them invalidated my trauma and told me I faked being in a coma cus I was asleep for too long... Like... Just pissed me off. They eventually said sorry and felt bad so there's that ig. I was a problem too later on, cus my mental state got even more bad and anger issues. I kept lashing out and being petty towards m...... 3 reply

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Wanda 29 06,2024

I was in a group of friends that constantly made fun of me and belittled me. Especially this one girl in particular found a way to put me down every chance she gets. For example so many people would tell me that when she talks about her friends with a stranger or an acquaintance, she would always refer to me as "the ugly girl in our group". When so...... 2 reply

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Sio 29 06,2024

I used to stay in hostel and I had my 3 roommates who became really close because of me. I always tried to connect them wherever they fought and i always initiate the hang outs, party and stuff. But they always cancel on me. Not only them, I will always try to hang out with my school friends but they would always cancel on me. I didn't think about ...... reply

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bakaneko 29 06,2024

you're doing great, realizing your own positive and negative points is really good because then you'll be able to place what kind of people you're most suitable to be close with. i'm 26 now, and i lost all my friends except for my senior high school bestfriends. bc they're the most patient, understanding, and not demanding. we always jokingly call...... reply

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GrellMyBeloved 29 06,2024

He spread lies in our friendgroup about my best friend, incredibly disgusting lies too. He was faking DID too but that was common in 2021, i cant quite remember what was on the video but it was a horribly tasted gacha video which we called him out for, then he said “It was my friend on my account.” Then started deleting the gacha screenshots of...... 1 reply

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Boothill's Submissive Omega 30 06,2024

my best friend used to get mad at me all the time because of little things i did to piss her off, i would sometimes question if why i'm even living because she was mad at me and i actually sometimes didn't know what i did. one time i think i like messed up her hair and she got mad at me for like two days. like i remember my best friend got friend...... 1 reply

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わくわく 01 07,2024

Used to be a twople with this other girl. We were bestfriendsss. Then this queer-gay-confused "cousin" of hers comes along and joins. They actually weren't real cousins, they just had the same last names so they cousinified each other. Now we are a triple. Fast forward we are best of friends. Me, friend #1 and confused queer #2. We shared the lov...... 1 reply

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