Okay so I've vented before and to be honest it was about an online drama and someone ik told me to "get over it" cus it's been like 5 months and the other party has already moved on. Then they told me they get it I was hurt but I should just move on its not that deep. But I had an mental breakdown about it, I relapsed from it becuz I wanted to always "fix" myself for them. I had to always respect them even tho I feel so disrespected. I really couldn't handle it I don't ask them to comfort me or anything but Idk if I'm maybe being too emotional from all of this, over a stupid online drama between friends of 2 years while the other don't even give a damn. I only vented how I hated that treatment from them, I didn't even vent to this person directly. They just heard from someone.
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Honestly, just let it out, way better than breaking down on the inside, you’re being disrespected here and that’s an issue, don’t downplay it to something you need to better yourself on, you should be respected and that’s the bare minimum in a friendship. I don’t know what Ya’lls situation is but there are plenty who could be by your side without treating you like bullsh*t. If you want to vent about it feel free, if you think that you want to communicate to them go on. I think this is a matter of respect, confront them directly, even if it’s a matter of three years or four fuckkit man, if it makes you uncomfortable just shoot the shot. I understand how difficult it can be to communicate, I dont want to downplay what you’re going through but believe that you aren’t alone in this subject. You can do this!! Just explain how you feel, and if you still aren’t respected? Yk what? Fucckeem! You can reach out to me and we could be friends.
Thank you, this honestly put my mind abit in ease ♡ honestly they've already been confronted by my friends and a mutual friend and in those times they genuinely just didn't care and told me it wasn't their fault that I got depressed over the online drama. Even though they were honestly just too much... Now Like they've moved on and forgetting abt it. Although yeah indeed fuckem!! Also sure I rlly love having more friends (⌒▽⌒)
I’m glad it gave you some comfort! Feel free to talk about things to those you feel comfortable with, remember that you still have others!