What's something people consider as a flex but it's not

Being a bully. I see people like that all the time on tiktok and I just can't understand why people want to be cruel?   reply

being desensitized to gore   4 reply

Shaming people for getting “around a lot” I guess you can say especially Man getting mad at women for not being pure or some shit like great you like your woman pure but keep that shit to yourself we don’t need to know it and you don’t need to post it all around the damn world   reply

1. Having a mental illness. Its one thing to jokingly flex about it as coping mechanism but some people actually feel proud of having untreated mental illness and wear it like a badge expecting others to treat them with special care. 2. Got expose to porn content at such a young age. I never understand why people are so proud of it. No you are no......   2 reply

Having rough childhoods, I don't know why ppl have to make a competition about who has the worst childhood   reply

People who constantly brag about having a lot of sex or any sex at all. Then shames others for not having sex. Honestly, sex isn't a big deal in my opinion almost everyone has it and if they don't it's not anyone else's business.   reply

Having parent(s) that are not strict/too carefree. Why is it a flex to have parent(s) that don't care enough about their child and their future? Idk if this is projecting since I have a strict parent, but I feel like most people who brag about this have subpar grades and get into trouble. (This is obviously harmful to the children, but I'm talki......   reply