What's up with Fujo's hating every queer people except masc on masc gay men.
I had pretty bad experiences with fujo's in general especially those who are very open and proud about their fujo identity. They hate pretty much every queer identity except masc on masc gay men. They absolutely despise fem gays and Trans people. Like...what's up with that. I was on many fujo groups a while ago and many of them openly hated on LGBTQ+ community. Am I the only unfortunate one who is surrounded by these disturbing fujos??
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And let me make it clear. It's not really abour the genre masc on masc. I love masc and masc too! But there is a certain group of ppl who just jumps on everything else! Irl too!
Damn a good chunk of yall are stupid asf! No wonder the hate population keeps growing. I cracked up reading that one bigass post here. Sister wrote a bunch of nothing lmfao! It's 5 in the morning and i'm laughing like crazy!
I’m glad it got you to laugh at least. It’s a terrible thing to live a sad and bitter life without any friends.
Wait what? When i said I don't have any friends??
LMAO! It’s obvious you don’t have any. If you did you’d be talking to them, not trolling the internet and picking fights you can’t win.
??.Hmm kinda feels you are projecting.
I’m guessing you hear that a lot from your therapist, lol.
Ok. Grandma. Take your meds cuz wth are these. You're funny tho.
I think that’s the first non-insulting thing you’ve said throughout this entire thread. Congratulations, you’re human after all.
I was pissed cuz u tried to justify why ppl are hostile towards queer ppl and made a silly excuse about fujo's horrible behaviours. I hate these types of ppl. U basically told me I'm not allowed to feel what I feel towards fujos cuz "ppl are unique". I was definitely being " unique" with you.
No, I just said that it really has nothing to do with reading BL, because you’re over here making hateful blanket statements about people who do read that kind of thing. There’s no justification for being hateful towards others. Do hateful people read BL? Yes, I’m sure some do. But there are also kind people who aren’t haters who read too. So why are you lumping everyone together?
So you’re allowed to be hateful but not me? That’s called hypocrisy, in case you didn’t know. You’re over here rabidly attacking others and lumping all fujos together with your hateful statements, but I’m the bad guy for pointing that out. Since when did you need permission to have feelings? Do I have control over you? No, I don’t. So stop making excuses for your own hateful behavior and blaming it on me. I have feelings too, you know.
Technically I blamed the community for not batting an eye at them. Of course there are hateful people, but yaoi is technically a queer culture favoured by straight woman. Then why these fujo's literary despise other queer identities? And the population is not small. You bluntly stated it is what it is by saying people are unique and "it's not like queer people are kind and open to straight people". Should've word it something else if you meant something totally different.
If that’s what’s pissing you off, let me be real with you. That’s my personal experience. I was a part of an LGBTQ+ club in my college days and there were many conversations between queer members openly hating on straight people. I found that shocking, but I learned that not everyone is as tolerant as they say they are. What you are saying about fujos is basically the same situation. Saying “it’s ok for me to say this because FEELINGS. But screw others if they talk trash about my group.” This is a horribly hypocritical way of viewing the world. For the record, I was using that experience to make a point about how hate can literally come from any one. Even the nicest people can be ugly sometimes.
Atp sating this cuz FEELINGS was patheric imo. It's not hypocritical to be not fond of straight people for queer people. They oppress us. And it's not wrong to be not "fond of them." It is not the same situation. Instead of saying to me that " I'm sorry you went through this, but I hope u can understand people are different, I get where they are coming from cuz ppl see yaoi as shameful then they defend blah blah blah".
You could've said " I'm sorry that your experiences with the fujo world was bad." That's it.
.You don't have to defend them. They told me to off myself cuz I'm trans. But they love to see 2 boys kiss and would die for them. Now tell me..
You’re the one who brought feelings into this, not me. I’m just using what you said to prove my point. And those statements about you killing yourself because you are trans is truly awful. No one deserves to hear something that ugly. Those people are terrible. If you had said something about your experiences instead of just being ugly about fujos in general, I might’ve said exactly what you wanted. But the way you just attack people because they happen to fall into a certain category is really offensive. It’s like saying “all men like golf.” Or “all women like cooking and cleaning.” It’s wrong, and no one would dare say it’s ok to say those things. So why do you think it’s ok to hate on fujos the same way?
I never once said all fujo's are disgusting. I said there is a growing population that needs to be pruned and not addressing this instead of defending it slightest will make everything worse for everyone. I said, bad experiences with fujo's in general yes but that don't mean it's 100% it's many among the few and it's a shitty situation.
Tbh, after rereading my original comment, it seems like maybe you’re misunderstanding something. This is just my opinion; A small snippet from my point of view. I was simply giving the people you’re bashing the benefit of doubt. Meaning that I’m leaving enough room in my mind for the possibility that you may not be telling the whole truth or you may somehow be misunderstanding them. Those people said some horrible things to you. How could I have known what you went through when you didn’t actually say? I have no defense for how horrible those people are. I’m not here to defend the people that said that, just the innocent bystanders you’re assaulting instead. And I actually have been shamed by a family member for reading BL before, so again, that’s a personal experience.
Yes I didn’t go into full details cuz I didn’t need to. It's a common thing now a days at least for many fujo's to be like this. Your og post still sounded very toan deaf to me, it seemed like you formed a quick opinion without thinking about the depths (which i didn’t technically give but still) and felt like you were invalidating what I was saying
It’s tone deaf because I was intentionally being non-aggressive. It’s just the way I talk and write. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot. I am sorry to hear it. Maybe just be more mindful of how you come across to others? Because it seems like you have a lot of prejudices built up against other people (straight and fujos). I said enough about fujos, but also heterophobia is not okay just because a few people out there are terrible pieces of human waste. Saying it’s okay for queer people to hate all straight people, but it’s not okay for straight people to hate queers is such a ridiculous double standard. Using double standards and hurt feelings to justify those kinds of thoughts and behaviors is the wrong way to go about sharing your plights with other people. This is why I said you have no friends. Also, if you’re going to blast other people, then that means you need to actually share what happened. Otherwise, people will get confused and defensive. In regards to your feelings: YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT WRONG OR RIGHT. They just are, so stop using other people to validate them, and accept them by yourself as a part of you. I’m not labeling your feelings for you.
This grudge against queer people of yours sounds ridiculous. You're just saying this is the same thing when it's not. And there is no situation where queer people disliked straight people to the point to harm or murder them. It's common sense to understand that. The og post was unintentionally very aggressive especially the wordings.
And remember this is a thread of an illegal site not the real life. My og post wasn’t to get validation, it was to find if this situation is unique to my surroundings but it wasn’t. Then there was the post on totally defending them without knowing shit.
Wow, I didn’t know just having an opinion was aggressive. And since we’re sharing here, one of those people you’re defending said they wished that all straight people would just disappear. It sounds a bit like what happened to you with those fujos, doesn’t it? There are people out there who genuinely hate straight people the same way, so no, it’s not “common sense.” Maybe the people you know are just better than them? I’m open to that possibility. TBH, most of the queer people I’ve met are not ,at least openly, that hateful to straight people. Again everyone is unique. I might not like those particular people very much, but they are not everyone, and their actions don’t represent the feelings of every queer person. The same for fujos, straights,etc.
There’s hate everywhere in the world though. It’s not like every fujoshi hates queer people and it’s not like every queer person is kind and open to straight people either. People hate people. It honestly has nothing to do with the hobby itself.
Still, I’m sorry that you haven’t met the right people.
Also, BL art comes in LOTS of different styles: feminine, masculine and everything in between.There are people who like more feminine art styles. Also, ABO universe is basically like the fujo poster child for gender fluidity. Granted, it’s not a perfect comparison, but there’s a lot more to BL than burly men going at it.
As someone who’s been here a long time, I do sometimes see new people become aggressive over their favorite comics, and I can imagine how uncomfortable that may be irl. But maybe the people you know act that way because they are used to having to defend themselves and their hobby to other people? Not everyone understands or is willing to listen if you say you like BL. Some people get shamed over looking at it. When that happens, it can be a reflex to defend yourself and your pride.
I do hate that you’ve had a rough go of it, but I hope you can understand that people are unique, and not everyone who likes the same things are the same kind of person.
Lmfao!! Gurl wtf are these logics. Uwu we are all diffrent
I lost half of my braincells reading the 1st 8 lines.
Lmao mines totally the opposite I see more fujos liking masc on fem ones and hating on masc on masc,I guess maybe it depends on the fandom or the age
They love their heteronormativity
as a not very open fujo w no fujo friends and as a androgynous pansexual, I can proudly say I am practically the opposite of this, and I keep my bl experience separate from my irl experiences. not to mention I just don't engage with fandoms at all so comments like these surprise me fr
also I prefer masc on masc but thas just me i like manly stuff but I'm open to pretty much anything ( ̄へ ̄)
And i'm not saying you're not allowed to like masc on masc but you don't lose your shit when there is a fem mc right? Unlike some other certain groups of ppl.
miss when this site wasn’t woke
2nd lobotomy when?
when ur dad comes back w the milk
so back when it didnt exist?
^ same, all of my fujo friends are lesbian/bisexual (i'm lesbian myself) so i was fortunate enough not to experience this
Trans woman here! And I could write a whole damn book on how horrible they were about my identity, and also saying constantly how they wanted to be an alpha MATCHO seme. Like...
the fujos im still friends with are all lesbians/bisexuals or men so thankfully i'm free from that but I used to have fujo friends that slowly but gradually became increasingly abhorrent and vile. They have a tendency to go from internet edgelord porn addicts to the most racist and intolerant people you know (and pedos). Your best bet is finding someone within the lgbt community bc it tends to not be a fetish fetish for them and just something they jack it to.
Yupp! They tend to be vile human beings irl too!
deadass bruh
Literally see some replies! They are letting those bitches walk all over so thy are keep popping up and they are justifying by saying everyone has different taste like...