I'm a hopeless romantic
I am in love with a friend of mine. We have never officially dated, but we have always been physically close (nothing sexual). A few years back he asked me out, but at the time I rejected him because I felt like it was the right thing to do.
Recently I had developed feeling for him and around that same time he began avoiding me; Ignoring me or giving very short replies in text or in person. We hadn't hung out much as of late, and I thought I had done something wrong. Even worse still he had started to become really close with another friend of mine, and although I love her as a friend I'm envious of her for having something I never knew I had until I lost it.
He is moving away soon and I'm going to try to keep reaching out to savor the final moments I have with him.
Our relationship is complicated and most of the time I can't seem to grasp what he's thinking. We have really high highs and really low lows.
If any of you have any insights, I would gladly read them. (this probably isn't the site to be ranting in lol)
Mostly I wrote this to just clear my head because I've been really confused lately.
i think you need to let him go. you've thrown away the ace, but now that you want it, it's fallen into someone else's hand. there's no good in robbing cards out of other people's hands, and there's no use in trying to barter for it anymore. you (very respectfully, might i add) turned down the opportunity when you had the chance. i admire you fo......
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31 05,2024
