Isekai manhwas pet peeves ?

I know this question comes back a lot in forum but what yall gonna do anyway

I hate when the attitude of characters towards the villainess changes only because someone else got transmigrated into her body.

Like, as a kid, the villainess will get abused or neglected by her family for literally no reason. When she grows up, the male characters will dislike her even tho she never did anything to them, AND BEFORE SHE EVEN BULLIES THE FL FROM THE STORY.

But as soon as a random woman possesses her, EVERYBODY LOVES HER!!!! Because she is mature unlike other kids, because she is smart, because everything she invests in never fails, because she is quirky.. All of a sudden she becomes the center of the attention.

What makes my blood boil is why don't the fls see any problem with that??? You read the story, you empathisized with the vilainess, cursed the characters who made her into what she is, even pretended to like her. But as soon as you are her, YOU FORGET ABOUT EVERYTHING AND SUCK UP TO THE MALE CHARACTERS EVEN AFTER HOW THEY TREATED THE VILLAINESS??!?!??! I can understand if she does it to survive (SHE SHOULD STILL HATE THEM THO) but when they're like "I will make them love me in this life uwu :3" OMGGG WHY!?!!??? AREN'T YOU ASHAAAAMED THIS IS LITERALLY BETRAYAL!!!

Me personally if I got reincarnated into a character who got hated for no reason I'd either seek revenge or not hide my hatred towards those fuckers. Especially if I liked that character, ain't no way I will be buddy with the mfs who mistreated you.

I fuckin hate the most when fathers decide to love their kid because she doesn't act like other kids and is mature for her age. Fuckin assholes.

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2nd point is when the romance starting point is the fl taking care of the ml and then the ml is in love/obsessed. It doesn't feel genuine AT ALL. Like any random person could have saved/protected him and he would be in love.

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Last point is related to the 1st one. We know that male characters will now be interested in the villainess bc she is different. But let's be for real, if she was ugly, they still wouldn't give a fuck. What I mean is, if the fl who got reincarnated kept her "mid" appearance (like she IS the villainess but with HER body), her being quirky and smart would be overlooked let's be fr. They don't like the "changed villainess" only bc she's a better person now but bc they have always been pretty. Fls should get transmigrated with their basic looks and they will see how hard it is
This is why I will seduce the Northen Duke is >, fl comes from another world but is still a baddie !!

Yapping session over