How would you handle your own harem?

Having a harem pretty much sucks.
Personally, if I had a harem, I would sulk because of my unattractiveness.
Then, I'd just find which person seems to be the best match for me :)

No drama, just going to keep everything real with them.
Hopefully, not getting into any misunderstandings either.

So, how would you handle your own harem?