Virgins at age 25+

I'm just not interested in dating people, I like quality time and having fun, but I don't really feel like dating nor having sex with anyone for that matter. If I ever do get married it's gonna be with my friend and entirely for tax benefits, and I don't care that I'm a virgin nor am I pressured to lose it   reply

I see so many people rushing to have sex and regretting it right after. Wait for the right person if you aren't necessarily looking for casual relationships. You won't die if you don't have sex. People treat sex as this golden goose milestone that you have to pass before the age of 18 and it's so weird to me. We have popular series' making fun of......   reply

Well I’m close to 25, but not there yet. I feel that no one wants me especially the area I’m in and definitely not the standard of beauty(still a baddie). I lack social skills I have very small social group. I’m honestly not mentally stable enough for a relationship. S3x is definitely a foreign language to me at this point.   1 reply

just cant trust anyone enough to share that kind of intimate moment with them. Ive seen too much i mean too much abusive relationships. Whenever someone shows interest in me romantically, i just cut them off. Im fine as long as they are my friend but when things go that way, i just back out. And i dont think there is anything that will break it. I......   reply

Well, I'm aroace and the idea of being sexually intimate with anyone else just feels icky to me... I would need someone that I really vibe with and feel 100% comfortable and safe with to try it out, but I don't really feel like I'm missing anything?   reply

personally for me I've never really been interested in other people for as long as I can remember. I was too busy maladaptive day dreaming (I have ADHD) I've never had a crush and I thought maybe that was just me not finding "the right person" but still no interest ever arose. I do get horny like anybody else but the idea of actually engaging in s......   reply

im not even a virgin but I feel for ppl that are mainly into men tbh. Im not even that gay and most of my romantic interctions w dudes have been abysmal, id stay virgin too if that was my whole dating pool stay single brothers, being alone is better than getting horny texts from straight dudes   reply

I had a similar question as bitchless virgin-pilled teen. Do people who are Aro still dream about romance? I think about wanting to experience a shoujo-ish romance but I have serious never felt that way about anyone. At most I’ve wanted to look cool in front of people (but I do that with literally everyone cause I have negative social skills) I......   1 reply