i wish i was a man
whenever i go out i literally have to put on eyeliner, mascara, foundation, eyeshadow, blush, highlighter, lip tint and gloss, choose an outfit (cant be the same one as yesterday or the day before, cant be too slutty or modest), wear accessories, straighten my hair or do a curly routine (both of which will take over half an hour) and i still feel like im not pretty enough
men will literally put on an oversized shirt + cargo pants (bonus points if they brush their teeth and dont smell like rotten eggs) and ppl will declare them a fashion icon i literally cant rn
The thing about this is you’re playing by typical gender rules. You can put on an oversized shirt and cargo pants and go out with no makeup regardless of your gender. I’m sure the people who are judging others (including you) will do so either way.
If you’re stressed out about having to put in so much effort you need to find a better balance......
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18 04,2024
