Genuine question, where are the people who have been reading bl/yaoi for more than a decade? I assume you all have a family by now and if so, how did that affect your BL/yaoi reading or obsession?
I have been reading BL/yaoi for about a decade and im in my early 20s now and i dont think Ill stop reading it even if get married or stuff like that but im curious about others' experiences. Like do you let your partner know u read something like this, or just hide it.
Why would getting a family/being old change what media you're allowed to consume? Replace the genre with any other one, does it change anything? It's just manga, if you're not a weirdo about it, it won't matter how old you are reading it. reply
life goes on! you can still read your yaoi , manga or read books even if you have a family or job or a life o.O! we just dont stay on the site 24/7. I dont hide anything from my partner, but also i dont go out of my way to explain to people what i read ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ reply
Been reading/watching BL/Yaoi since I was 13(Started with Junjou Romantica anime) and haven't stopped since. I am 28 now turning 29 soon. Not married yet but my bf knows I read yaoi. He doesn't really mind it but he is not a fan either. Having a bf didn't really affect much of my reading/watching yaoi, we respect each other's hobbies and always mak...... reply
Yeah, we're all a culmination of our past selves. I've been reading BL for nearly half my life then since I'm also in my 20s. I just usually read more BL/yaoi during seasons where I stay indoors more.
I would probably tell my partner at some point, but on the basis of an exciting plot to ease the idea haha If I had kids, I wouldn't introduce them ...... reply