Cannot relate in the slightest, dom/sub be my favorite universe as a BDSM bro who loves the use of SAFEWORDS. Normie fictional BDSM barely even touches safewords or boundaries, it's just slap slap and tie em up, but this shit is binding in dom/sub.
Btw commands are used in actual BDSM play, it just may not be something like "present" for everyone.
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