Uke / seme

Is it just me or has the discussion around the usage of those terms COMPLETELY died down?

It has always been widely spread but damn, at least we were talking about it. Now everyone's just using it, no matter what the content is.
Like can we please stop calling fluff BL guys uke/seme????? As if you'd even know how they fuck.... and why do you care

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LGtfo 02 09,2024

People here have a stick up their ass huh. I don’t really use the term but it’s funny seeing the reactions to people using it. It’s not like it’s derogatory or anything, it’s just another word for top/bottom. As long as u don’t call a real person that, then I think it’s fine. reply

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[DELETED] 31 03,2024

Reducing people to their position in bed is sth I've ALWAYS been saying is weird y'all I hate the term yaoi and yuri too, cuz the meaning for yaoi is a term for pornographic media between two men or more engaging in sexual acts. Can we please refer to it as bl instead? And Yuri almost always refers to the same but for women, lets not bunch a wh...... 2 reply

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Bubbles 31 03,2024

Omg, there used to be this HUGE debate back in 2020/2021 where people would argue that these terms were bad to use because it was labeling characters by their positions in sex, which I totally agree with. I was guilty of using it back then as well, and rarely use them except the couple of times that they slip out, which I swear I'm trying to fix. N...... 1 reply

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Hajun is swaggot 02 09,2024

I mean tbh i get it like why are we referring to the characters by their sex positions, like we could just use Mc/ML instead of those but sometimes it's just easier to recognise which character are we talking about cus nobody ever bothers to remember their names. I don't get it with ppl using them on shounen-ai tho but it's easier in the nsfw ones ...... 1 reply

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catboyrights 02 09,2024

I never thought of it as that serious. I know people are all like "But real life mlm don't like the terms." And the real life mlm is some white person using a Japanese name. And as much as I like when yaoi stories challenge the conventional "seme" and "uke" norms at the end of the day they're just terms. If people don't like stereotypical yaoi wi...... reply

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ankle devotee 31 03,2024

if you dont know their name you might as well just refer to them by hair colour or smth... 1 reply

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[DELETED] 31 03,2024

Litterallyyyyyy omg we shouldnt be calling them uke/seme, its just not right, we should instead call them both aids-carrier. WAY more fitting! 1 reply

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Legra 02 09,2024

My goodness, being in many communities, i notice people always have issues with something thats like a nothingburger. like, YAOI, UKE, SEME, THEY ARE JAPANESE TERMS THAT WE ADOPT BECAUSE GUESS WHAT? We read YAOI mangas and they're from JAPAN! Wow!! Mindblowing! We also have the english version now because people dont like the japanese words, BL, TO...... 3 reply

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bel 31 03,2024

Why the fuck do they even exist anyway... 1 reply

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Hako 02 09,2024

I think it died down here bc people realized (from the hundreds of debates about how harmful and weird it is on here) that it's kinda weird to use sex positions to refer to a person (though some people still use it unknowingly--dont go after them though since most of them mean no harm), but in other countries and other socmed/sites a lot of people ...... reply

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