Recs pls??

So I’m looking for dark romance BUT NOT THE ONE WHERE ONE IS BASICALLY THE ABSUED AND THE OTHER IS THE CAPTOR. I want a balanced amount of crazed love/hate/obsession on both sides, and this can be “romance” or psychological.

Similar to Checkmate (TAN) or A Lesson in Vengence (it’s a book and I’ll take book recs aussi pls but not really shows I like watching the same things again and again) because I’m tired of seeing one person take a beating and then say “oh but I think I’m in love with them ahh!” Like shut you’re goofy ass up what da heck kinda like Jinx (dropped it but I bet they fall in love because plot)